Unassuming Sex Athlete



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Nigeria
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Marketer
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Exploring more sex acts
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Unassuming Sex Athlete

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was in the UK at the time as a full-time Masters student. I met N via Bumble during my preparation for my finals. She seemed like a happy-go-lucky lady with some amazing vocal talents, a very tomboyish, but womanly body. We messaged back and forth for over 2 weeks and agreed to meet N in person. She looked even hotter in person with an amazing ass to go. Within the first 5 minutes of interaction, I knew I wanted to fuck N. We met at a coffee shop and did a mini pub crawl.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? While on the pub crawl, we got talking and getting handsy. N seemed to be enjoying mu touching her inner thighs while having drinks. There was a bit of sexual tension and I got sustained hard-ons (my boxers helped in concealing it). Then, I invited her back to my room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got in there, N’s randier side came out. We were kissing each other so passionately and our hands were all over each other – and kissing her soft skin. I was sucking her perky boobs with her standing nipples. I could feel her pussy was getting wetter. Got her onto the bed, and foreplay continued. Fucked her for a while then stopped to talk for a while about our innermost sexual needs with our favorite music in the background. Fast forward a few hours, we were touching ourselves again and then started fucking missionary, doggy, drill, rear entry, jockey. Her moans got louder the longer we took. Thankfully, I wasn’t about to come so we went on for a while. I then finished off N by going down on her sweet-tasting pussy, while progressively increasing the pressure of my fingering. At the end, she could barely control herself and was moaning loudly while her pussy was super wet – almost to the brink of squirting. I like going down on girls and N was the perfect partner for that.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She stayed at mine for a few hours and kissed me goodbye. I absolutely loved my experience with my expectations exceeded. I thought something could blossom but it wasn’t to be. I’ve since lost contact with N and am ambivalent towards her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity and N’s pussy

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not having a bigger bed for more experimentation.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes it has; I am more open to casual sex and one-night stands

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Super sweet babe – and loved every moment.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People should have more casual sex – and there should be less stigma attached to a very harmless and human act

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very interesting; I have been an avid reader over the last 2 years and love it. A bit disappointed that there’s been very few black people or Africans posting here.

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