Unexpected Date

by Tamara

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? manager
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? insatiable
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Unexpected Date

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? 1st Date Hook-up

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met online through a dating app.
He is 31 years old. Indian, about 5’11”
Has deep black eyes & long beautiful eye lashes.
Soft pouty lips, straight slender nose.
Thick black hair with light touches of grey that contrast his boyish face.
We met at a bar downtown & I was not sure what to expect. His sense of humor intrigued me.
He was better looking than I thought (based on his photos). His smile warmed up his face.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had a glass of wine & he had a beer. We talked a bit about our selves & interests.
We had a few more drinks (I switched to bourbon). He had a caesar…
By the time we were told that it was last call we had become fairly comfortable with each other.
We left the bar & began walking towards my place. I was unsure where it was leading to. I had some wine at home & he suggested we go & drink that & listen to some music.
I was hesitant but also excited by the thought of spending more time together.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We listened to music & at one point he suggested we dance…that turned into a kiss & there was palpable sexual tension. I had my monthly visitor so I wasn’t sure what we would do. He brought me to the bedroom & we kissed and touched each other for a long time. I wanted to slow down but I was so turned on.
slowly clothes began to be shed…I had told him I had my period but that did not deter him from playing with my clit and making me cum hard with his fingers. Then he slowly & lightly started to lick my clit & tease it. It was so unexpected that he would go down there when I had a tampon in…definitely added to the excitement as I previously thought that would be a no go zone.
He made me cum a few more times & by then he was rock hard. I wanted to suck his cock very badly so I positioned myself between his legs on the bed & licked & sucked his balls, taint & cock until he couldn’t take anymore and delivered a huge load of cum into my mouth.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards I was very happy with the sexual chemistry we had & looked forward to more encounters. I was also quiet intrigued by my date’s personality & sense of humor.
We have been to about 6 times since then & each time has been mind blowing…I hope to see him tomorrow night:)

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? friends, they are happy that I am having fun.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? finding a very exciting partner to share sexual encounters & friendship

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? that I had my period

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am going through a divorce & enjoying have fantastic sex right now.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? interesting

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