What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Scientist
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? around 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A friend of mine from my days as a student was going back to her home country (Germany) and invited me to go to the pub with a group of her friends to say goodbye. When I arrived there was a large group of people, some of whom I didn’t recognise and my friend explained that they were friends of hers from Germany, just visiting for her final weekend.
I chatted to my friend for a while but she had a lot of people to greet and soon I found myself sitting with her German friends, all but one of whom were girls. My German is very limited, but I managed to follow some of what they were saying and in any case they switched to speaking in English after a while and were very friendly. One was a tall, outgoing woman with exotic looks (she was half Tunisian) and a lot on show, but her quieter, shorter friend caught my attention…
She was quite short, blonde, of slim build but with the slightest hint of a belly, modest breasts and what turned out to be large, round ass. She was wearing a skirt and a purple top which showed a nice slice of cleavage (though her boobs were small) – let’s say she was really looking her best without even trying. When [by chance] I ended up sitting next to her I was immediately excited and tried my best to be friendly.
It seemed to work and soon we were deep in conversation. It turned out we were both science students and were both single. She was really interesting to talk to and we got on very well. Her English was great and she also knew Spanish, so we chatted in that language a bit too. Time went by very quickly and soon it was around midnight…the pub garden was closing. She was staying with my friend and everyone started talking about going home. I asked her what she wanted to do and she suggested I walk her to her friend’s place.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We set out in a big group, but either by accident or design we fell behind and were soon walking alone in the dark. It was early summer and the weather was great and we decided to take a longer, more scenic route, which went past the university. By this point we were holding hands and I decided to kiss her on the cheek. She responded by grabbing me and passionately kissing me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We half-walked half ran to a walkway between two buildings and stood in the near-darkness, out of sight, kissing deeply and grabbing each other. I already had the impression that she was in the mood for something a bit ‘rough’ (though of course in a respectful way), and when I grabbed her ass and squeezed hard she responded enthusiastically. Soon we were biting each other’s lips and dry humping as we stood toe-to-toe. I moved a hand to her breast and she pulled down her top and her bra, showing me her amazing boobs – they were tiny and sat high on her chest. We took a break from kissing and I tonged her nipples and had my other hand on her thigh, slightly up and under her skirt. I was getting all the right signals, so I put my hand up further and pulled her panties to the side and put a finger inside her. She was sticky wet already and started rubbing my groin through my shorts. I lifted her top to expose her beautiful little belly and kissed her from the top of her skirt to her boobs. This seemed to get her really fired up and she told me she wanted to suck my dick. I couldn’t get my shorts down fast enough! She did it elegantly and delicately, even romantically. She looked up at me with her beautiful eyes and smiled from time to time. Up to that point I had always thought that a good BJ had to be fast, deep, even aggressive, but what she did was exactly the opposite of that – and it felt amazing. After a while she stood up, wiping her mouth a little on her hand and asked (a little shyly) what she could expect in return. Without even thinking I got down on my knees and lifted her skirt. She was wearing cute purple panties and there was wet patch at the front. I ran my finger up and down the outline of her labia which I could see through the material (my eyesight must have been good in those days, as it was quite dark!) and she coyly remarked that perhaps she wasn’t “fully prepared” – I understood that she was alluding to being unshaved, but told her not to worry. I pulled the front of her panties to the side and came face to face with the most exquisite little vulva. She was embarrassed about the few short hairs which had started to grow, but I wasn’t complaining. I gently blew on her labia and she started to breathe very heavily (though I was crouching and she was standing, I could feel her breath on my neck and ears). I started to kiss her labia and she really went crazy…within a few seconds she was, for want of a better term, face-fucking me, holding onto the back of her head and pushing herself onto me. I started to be a little rougher, using the edge of my teeth and trapping her labia in my mouth. By this point her juices were hanging off her labia in strands (as well as all over my face) and she pulled me up and told me that we needed a bed. Now it was my turn to clean off my face and she joked about it being a very “fair” hookup.
We walked the rest of the way to her place quite quickly, but with pauses in dark corners (out of the streetlights) to give each other oral for a few seconds, keeping us on the boil. Her delicious scent seemed everywhere and she made a few nice comments about my dick, which really added to the temperature. We were burning for each other by the time we got to the house where she was staying. We made it to the spare bedroom, which was quite spartan and had a single bed. The friend who I had gone to meet was in the next room, presumably asleep. We both had to use the toilet and I made sure I washed myself off (hope she did the same!) before joining her in the bedroom again. She removed her top and pulled off my t-shirt, hugging me tightly and rubbing her crotch against my groin and leg. Perhaps foolishly, I asked her what she wanted to do now and she replied, “You know what!”. Without saying anything we agreed to start doggystyle. She moved to the edge of the bed and bent over, lifting up her skirt. Up to this point I hadn’t seen her ass, but now I saw that she had the most beautiful pair of large, round buttocks, with her panties sitting deep between them, nearly out of sight. The skin on her back, her ass and her hips was all the same beautiful pale gold hue and I stopped for perhaps as long as 2 minutes to admire the view. Remaining in the same position, she pulled down her panties I got an even better view. I have always been unwilling to view women as objects, but right then the sight of her pussy and asshole presented to me seemed extremely hot and unbearably dirty. I kissed and licked her buttocks, running my tongue close to her asshole and massaging her pussy with my left hand while I slapped her ass with my right. I could see my dick throbbing to my pulse (which must have been about 150). It was time to get down to it, so I slipped on a condom and pushed inside her. She was extremely tight (though she was very wet) and I immediately got a kind of numb feeling in my dick – after a couple of thrusts she began to react explosively, moaning and pushing back onto me, yelling me to do it harder. I obliged, pushing into her with my hands on her shoulders…I thrust again, harder…and finished into the condom. It was embarrassingly quick and I immediately lost my erection, withdrawing and apologising. We hugged for a few minutes, breathing heavily and I went to the bathroom. When I returned she smiled and told me not to worry, though she seemed a little amused (I guess it was quite funny).
I lay back on the bed and we 69ed for a while, before I invited her to sit on my face (something I love and which I don’t think she’d done before). She seemed to really enjoy it, but again commented on the fact that she’d shaved a few days ago and hoped I didn’t mind. I responded by pushing further into her and turning my head to “French-kiss” her labia. We continued like this for a while, but I don’t think she came. By now it was so late that the sun was coming up and wordlessly we agreed that it was time to stop. We lay spooning, with my still hard dick by her amazing ass. We talked dirty for a while as I touched her from her boobs to her pussy and thighs and it gradually morphed into a discussion about sex in general. We fell asleep in that position, kind of locked together and with my mouth resting on the back of her neck, tasting her sweet skin.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning there was a little awkwardness, but we still kissed and hugged. She told me to come to Germany sometime for a weekend of “hot fun”, but we both knew it was very unlikely to happen. Her friend (my friend) seemed quite amused and i wondered how much she had heard. The two girls whispered in German a bit and giggled – I got the impression that she had said something about me not lasting long, but how could I object – that’s how it had gone down. I just wish I had made her come!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One or two friends. Much later I had a mutual masturbation session with an ex of mine and I mentioned it in the heat of the moment.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fantastic oral sex, extremely hot atmosphere, her body (beautiful face, breasts, legs, stomach, perfect ass, great pussy)
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Finishing so damn quick after such a build up
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me more confident in seduction but a little apprehensive about finishing too quickly (for a few months)
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Perhaps it sounds as though it was a purely physical experience – but that wasn’t the case; there was a lot of friendship between us, however fleetingly
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I relied on it for years to achieve satisfaction, when perhaps I would have been happier with a stable partner. However, I don’t regret my adventures.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great idea – this kind of thing goes on, so it might as well be documented
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