What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Wanted To Stay In, Forced To Go To A Party, Had Sex With A Gorgeous Stranger
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was perfect: brunette, slim, creamy skin, beautiful mouth, and small pert breasts. She is one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was visiting family in a different town and planning on staying in for the evening to watch movies. Another family member, a year younger, coerced me into leaving the house to go and party with some of his friends.
I laid eyes on her at a house party where she must have noticed me. I was in a relationship so I wasn’t looking to mingle in that way. Later, the gathering went to a bar where she kept getting me drinks. I noticed she was completely attentive to me leaning in close to hear everything I was saying. I was not ready to entertain that she might be attracted to me, but one drink led to the next and I asked her if she wanted to step outside to get some fresh air.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Outside the bar, some goofy friend of my relative was trying to make small talk. I could tell my new ladyfriend wanted us to be alone, so I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk. We made it half a block and she was radiating; her eyes were sparkling. I was so turned on. I turned to her and asked what she would do if I kissed her? She vibrated. I leaned in and kissed her. She melted into my arms and dissolved into my kiss. We couldn’t stop.
I should add, I didn’t know this town I was in, so I was stumbling around to find some cover. We endes up in a parking lot with almost no cover. She unbuckled my pants and dropped to her knees to suck my throbbing, dribbling cock. Then she stood up and I slid inside her. She felt so good I came within seconds.
We go together the next night at this house again. We sat outside on the porch on a couch and she straddled me and slid me inside her. I barely lasted despite it being a freezing February temperature out. I wanted to invite her back to the family I was staying with but felt that would be a bad look as they knew I was in a LTR (long-term relationship). I have always regretted that. Our texts fizzled out over the next day when I couldn’t commit to seeing her.
I wanted to fuck her in a more dominant position her legs pinned beside her, her looking back at me. I wanted to eat her pussy, fuck her from behind, 69, cum inside her, have her beg for my cock. I craved her body for years afterward.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, I was so drugged by her. She wanted to move to the city I lived in (across the country) and be with me. I couldn’t because I was in a LTR, but I regret that.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My relative. He couldn’t believe it. This was the hottest girl among his friend group. I told a close friend as well – he was very jealous especially after I showed him her picture. He told others mutual acquaintances about it, making them jealous as well I’m told. It made me feel good knowing that. It’s the least pleasure I got from not being able to see her again.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was perfect.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had to leave and wasn’t yet willing to leave my partner and take a chance on this stranger. I never got to see her again. I looked her up on facebook and saw she’s now married – as am I.
I wanted to fuck her so many different ways and taste her pussy.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I cheated to make it happen. It made me realize I’d cheat if the right opportunity presented itself. I went on a casual sex bender in the years to follow, having sex with many women in a short timeframe. I ended up feeling empty by the end of it and that I was almost bordering on sex addiction. I couldn’t say no to sex if the opportunity presented itself.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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