What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Water Hole Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a handsome college-aged frat boy from the local university, muscular and fit, forward.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were swimming at a local waterfall swimming hole close to my house. It was a close walk from my house, a frequent summer hang out. There were a group of guys that cruised for sex there. At the time it seemed distasteful, but mostly because they were very public about their activities, which made some folks uncomfortable (plus none of the regular ladies as we called them were hot). I was solidly in the closet about my bisexual side, in a relationship with a woman that wasn’t working out.
The young frat boy approached me and commented on the ladies who were clustered together on the rocks. I explained that this was a cruising spot. He asked me if I wanted to hook up. Initially, I said no and that I wasn’t into guys (closet case what can I say). We parted ways taking two different paths hiking out of the woods. I immediately regretted saying no, so I ran ahead to meet up with him again. I saw him in the clearing and we walked into a private spot in the woods.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was really nervous and my mouth was dry. We kissed and touched each other’s muscles. He was much more muscular than I was at the time. It felt very surreal to kiss a man. It wasn’t really turning me on until he pulled out his cock and started stroking it. His dick was relatively large, cut, similar to mine really. I pulled out my cock and he rubbed me with his hand. He told me he didn’t give head without a condom. I got on my knees in front of him, pushed my face into his crotch, licked his balls and thighs, then I took him into my mouth. I was extremely turned on. I stroked his shaft with my hand as I took the head into my mouth and throat. It wasn’t long before he warned me he was going to cum. I grunted assent without taking him out of my mouth. He warned me again and then shot several squirts of cum into my mouth. I swallowed everything he had to give me, caught my breath, wiped my eyes, and sat down with my dick in my hand. He stood up and seemed anxious to leave. I asked him to put his softening dick in my mouth while I jerked off. After several strokes, I had a huge orgasm.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I never saw him again. I wish I had gotten his phone number. The encounter with him was like a lightning strike, I was so turned on. Just walking out of the woods, I rubbed one out again. This was the first time a man ever came in my mouth. I have sucked off a lot of guys since then, but nothing beats the charge of the first time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never talked about it. I have been more open later in life regarding my bisexuality. Back then it was a close secret
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being on my knees in front of a muscular handsome man, feeling him ejaculate in my mouth.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It highlighted what things weren’t working with my girlfriend at the time.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have embraced how much I love to suck cock.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Were it not for the risk of disease, I would be way more promiscuous, though my promiscuity has not helped me stay in relationships longer.
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