“We Hardly Know Each Other!”



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? South America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? I have no idea

“We Hardly Know Each Other!”

How long ago did this hookup happen? Seven months ago, kind of.

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her a couple of years ago, in a workshop.
Our relation was kind of friendly, although we never talked that much. I guess we were acquaintances and not really friends. She has curly hair and a cute dark skin. Her breasts are not that big, but they are perky and beautiful. Her ass looks great when she is naked, but it’s not as impressive when she is fully clothed. She is not fat, but not totally slim. Let’s say she has one or two extra pounds. She looks great nonetheless.

At the time, I thought of her as a funny and exotic lady.

Back then, things in my relationship weren’t going great, not because of anyone’s fault. but we were going through harsh circumstances.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She was from another city and she was in town for a congress. We were the whole week going to conferences in the afternoons and socializing at night. I was drinking heavily all those days.
Then, there was this party and me and my friends went there. We were all dancing and suddenly a girl a knew for a long time started to rub her ass against my penis. I was getting pretty horny, but she went away. Later she told me that she was pretty high and drunk, so she didn’t remember anything.

Anyway, I started to dance with THE girl of this story. As I said before, we didn’t really know that much of each other, but we were comfortable enough to dance so close with each other. I was getting increasingly horny so I suddenly kissed her. She was really enjoying it. I asked her if she wanted to go outside for a while and she agreed. There, we kissed a little more. I felt more confident and asked her if she wanted to go somewhere more private, and she gave her enthusiastic consent. We went to a room in a motel and we started to undress while french kissing.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we were naked, she asked me to keep the condoms ready. I slowly went down to her vagina and started to lick it. Her pubic hair wasn’t pretty long, so I didn’t any problems over there. She started to moan pretty loudly, and I was getting even harder. With her legs quite open, I started to kiss my way back to her mouth. Obviously, I took my time to such her nipples. Finally, as I was kissing her on her lips, she started to touch my ass and she pushed me inside her vagina. I was surprised since she asked me to used condoms, but she confessed that she actually likes to fuck bareback. That made me as hard as diamonds.

We had a pretty nice first round of sex. Her pussy was pretty wet and I enjoyed how it felt around my penis. We started on missionary, then she on top. She took a break to suck my dick and went back to riding me. I could feel her juices coming down my cock. It was great! Once I came outside her pussy, we took a bath, and then we started to fuck again.

I think we had three or four rounds of sex. I just couldn’t get enough of her vagina, it had a nice slippery feel to it. And she was a screamer: her moaning was loud and sexy. Perhaps she wasn’t that good at giving blowjobs, but she knew how to move her hips while I was fucking her. And every time we fucked, I would unload myself on her belly button.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Once we were done, we took a cab to her place, and then I went home. The next morning we bought an emergency pill, just to be sure.

As the week ended, she was in the mood of hanging out with me more, but I felt kind of uncomfortable. In that period of time, I learned a lot about her personality. Finally, she returned to her city.

Days later, she wrote that she felt like she was in love with me, but she wouldn’t mind if I wasn’t feeling the same. She explained that it wasn’t the fucking or the kissing, but how I was that made her feel that way. She was pretty mature about it. Obviously, I wasn’t really interested in a relationship with her, so I told how I felt.

And, yeah, I didn’t tell her about my girlfriend. If I learned something that week is that this girl would crush me without mercy if she found out the truth.

And now… well, I just became aloof and haven’t made any new contacts with her. It was pretty unusual for me to have casual sex like that.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Plan B / Emergency contraception

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, I was feeling lonely, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To none

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Well, a lot of people saw me kissing with this girl, and I still fear that someone will snitch on me. I shouldn’t have done that in the first place.
So far, people seem to have forgotten about it but I’m not so sure.
Plus, this younger girl has fallen in love with me (kind of) and it makes me feel even shittier.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Well, I like bareback sex, and I don’t get a lot of it. Her vagina really felt good around my unprotected cock. Sometimes I get pretty hard remembering how warm and wet it was.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? How uncomfortable it made me feel afterward.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Maybe, in a circumstance where I can be more honest, I might do it again. I swear, it was a great pussy.

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