We Only Did It Once, in Her Friend’s Bed



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

We only did it once, in her friends bed

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last year

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had chatted a bit on Tinder and I was excited about meeting her. I was just out of a long term relationship and I just wanted sex…based on our texting I reckoned she might be up for it, and she looked hot in her pictures.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We arranged to meet in a bar at 8pm, but she texted me and said she needed to leave by 10pm because she was house sitting for a friend, so could we meet at 7pm instead. She arrived at 7pm wearing hot pants and tights, with a couple of glasses of wine inside her already. We chatted and when she went to go outside for a cigarette, I asked her for a kiss first. She kissed me full on, her lips felt large and wet, and very soft. As it neared 10pm she said she had to go and catch a bus, and she asked me what I was doing. I was cheeky and said that I was going to come and catch her bus with her, she smiled and said “well you can come back, if you want”.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We sat at the back of the bus downstairs and were kissing with our hands all over each other, it seemed like neither of us could wait to get home. We went back to this house where she was house sitting and went straight upstairs. I came out of the bathroom to find that she was already in bed but fully clothed, so I climbed in next to her with my clothes on too. She climbed on top of me and we were kissing, she slipped her hand straight under the waist of my jeans and into my boxers, grabbing my cock which was already pretty hard, we had only met about 3 hours before! I reached up to touch her breasts through her top and was surprised to find that she didn’t have a bra on so I reached my hands straight inside her top and touched her nipples and breasts, they were really soft. In no time we had stripped each others clothes off, I remember pulling her hot pants, tights and knickers off in one movement. She immediately bent down to suck my cock, all I could think was that this girl was really into cock while I ran my hands over her back and breasts. We turned over and I went to lick her pussy but she reached down to touch her clit with her middle finger, not really sure if that was because she wasn’t ready for my tongue or she just preferred that, I loved watching her touch her clit right in front of my eyes while I kissed and touched her thighs. I moved up to kiss her on the lips and she had both of her legs in the air, my cock was right against her pussy and I asked her if she was on the pill, she said yes and I slid it inside her and we fucked in missionary for a while. We were talking, telling each other how good it was, and how much we were liking it. Then we switched and she sat on my cock, riding me up and down, she looked amazing but I couldn’t keep it up unfortunately. She immediately went to suck me again and I soon got hard enough so she slid down onto me again, but again I didn’t last very long unfortunately. Neither of us came and we ended up lying in spoons, her in front of me, I was touching her breasts with my right hand and my cock with the other, wanking it against her back but I couldn’t get hard again, so I reached round to her clit with my left hand. I reached into her pussy and spread her wet over her clit and we lay there for ages, me gently touching her clit and her breasts, she said something like ‘this is so hot’ and I thought it was too, especially when she reached up and starting tweaking her nipples herself. She had a little flutter and I kept touching her clit but she pushed my hand away from her, I don’t think she actually orgasmed but she had obviously had enough and we fell asleep in that position.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I would have liked to see her again for more of the same, but she said she didn’t think things were really going to work out for us.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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