Wedding Bells

by Jake

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Nashville
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Real Estate
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Unaffiliated
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Wedding Bells

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was fat, but cute. We met via mutual friends at a wedding party. I was very intoxicated.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started in the pool when we all got drunk. Everyone got naked and kept drinking. I did not want to go to bed alone that night so I made my moves in the crowd. She was the only one who responded favorably.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went all the way from kissing to intercourse. The kinkiest thing I attempted was oral in the shower. I waterboarded myself on pussy.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Never saw her again. I never want to hook up with her again. I found her physically unappealing.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends. We laughed about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Having sex with a fat woman is a huge confidence destroyer. I am relatively fit, educated, and charismatic and only hooking up with her ruined my ego.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Cumming in her and falling asleep.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Too much flesh.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I will never have sex with someone I consider unattractive again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Eh

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like to have more casual sex. I think its a fun experience to share with someone you find sexually attractive.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Not much. I haven’t had the chance to really dig into it yet.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!