What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Contractor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A dew
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’m guessing she’s in her early to mid-40s. She stood about 5’2” with black hair and brown eyes. I saw her at a wedding reception, the first time I ever laid eyes on her. Thought she was sexy and she appeared alone but had a wedding ring on. We talked a bit at the open bar. Her husband was in the wedding party but she really didn’t know anyone.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was a rather large reception. I’m guessing 500 or so people. We ran into each other on the dance floor, that was packed. She twerked me for a bit, we grinded on each other. I was hard and made sure she knew it. The music slowed because they were going to throw the brides garter. She led me away to a stairwell that I didn’t know was there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once in the stairwell, we kissed and groped each other. She ran her hands over my cock and I lifted her dress and slid her panties to the side and started fingering her. “We don’t have a lot of time, fuck me now,” she said.
I turned her around, pushed her dress over her waist, exposing her beautiful heart-shaped ass. I dropped my pants, slapped her ass with my cock a couple of times and shoved it into her pussy. I fucked her from behind as hard and fast as I could. The fear of getting caught was exhilarating, her pussy felt amazing and she was getting louder and louder with her moans. I pulled out, whipped her around, picked her up and put her on my dick. She muffled her moans in my neck. I finally unloaded in her pussy. Still holding her on my dick, we caught our breath and kissed until my cock softened enough that it slipped out of her. We got ourselves together and returned for the cake cutting.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Back at the ceremony, I didn’t talk to her the rest of the night. Actually didn’t even get her name. I didn’t expect anything to come of it. It was a great moment of physical pleasure I won’t forget.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have not told anyone
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity of it. The randomness, the mystery of the stranger I met that day,
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I will only fuck get once.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was very satisfying. Knowing our spouses were in the same building and we could have been caught
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it
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