What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Communications
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Wife With A Young Airman In Japan
How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife was 5’6″ and 150 lbs at the time with 36D breasts and a tight, perky ass. Until this happened, she had only had sex (of any kind) with me. She was 32 when this happened. Other guy’s name was Jim. He was 19, average height/weight, and inexperienced sexually. I was his supervisor at his first duty assignment in the Air Force. He was a nice guy, but lonely and homesick.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Jim was over for dinner and to watch movies we’d rented. My wife made some drinks and we were all feeling pretty good. My wife isn’t a big drinker, but I could tell she was being a little flirty and the alcohol was probably helping things. Jim and I started talking about sex and such. He said he’d never had sex and was waiting for the right time to come along for him to lose his virginity. I asked him if he meant he was waiting for marriage and he said “No, just waiting for a time where I would feel comfortable.” He admitted he didn’t like it and felt a little intimidated by the “slutty girls in the dorm,” and said he was too busy working and going to school to find the time to pursue one of them even if he wanted to.
Around about that time, I put some porn in the VCR and we were watching it as we drank more and more. By this time, I was trashed and I think Jim was pretty close to being trashed as well. My wife had been busy cleaning things up in the kitchen when she came in and told me she was going to bed. She went upstairs while Jim and I continued to drink and watch porn.
Another 20 minutes went by, when I started to ask Jim what he thought about losing his virginity to my wife. He said he thought she was nice but she was my wife and we were friends and he would never do that to anyone, especially not his friend and supervisor. I told him that my wife had been drinking a lot and would probably be up for some fun (a bit of a lie since we’d never discussed this, even though she knew I was interested in playing around at some point).
I said he could go up to the bedroom, talk to her a little while to see how she felt and to see if he was comfortable with the idea, and if he changed his mind he could come back downstairs and take my place on the couch. He said he’s read enough Penthouse Forum articles to know that there were many guys who got off on this kind of thing, and that since I was so sure it’d be OK – and he was already drunk and horny – he’d go upstairs and “see what happens.”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I followed him up the stairs about 10 minutes later just to sit outside the bedroom door and see if I could hear anything. When I got up there, they were just talking to each other. This gave me hope because if she intended to kick him out, I was pretty sure it would have happened already. Him being a virgin and somebody she felt comfortable being around, I knew there was at least a chance they might hook up. I lied there on the floor with my ear to the door and eventually fell asleep as they continued to talk.
At about 3 a.m., I woke up to the sounds of the bed springs squeaking and light moans. It was the most excited I have ever been. The bed was bashing the wall, and my wife was moaning with every thrust. Soon after, she started having an orgasm and she screams uncontrollably when she cums, so the sounds she was making were unmistakable. As I listened, I took my cock out and stroked it like never before, taking me less than 30 seconds to cum all over my hand and cock. I listened for another 10 minutes as she continued to scream and then finally I could tell he came because my wife told him that she could feel him orgasm.
After he had finished, I could hear them talking some more and giggling a little, so I figured I should go downstairs and get some sleep.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning our kids woke me up playing Nintendo in the living room. I decided to go upstairs to check up on them and see if they had woke up yet.
When I got to the top of the stairs, I could hear them fucking again. She was moaning, he was grunting and I was shocked that not only had she fucked him once, she was clearly fucking him again. I was glad she was having a good time, but a little annoyed over the fact that the day had started and they were still going at it.
I so wanted to go in and watch, but decided I’d use the other bathroom and take a shower and get cleaned up and maybe by the time I was finished with all of that, they’d be done and I could finally get the lowdown on what had happened.
She said when he came in, she was shocked and her first reaction was to tell him to get the fuck out of the bedroom. But he told her what I had told him so she suggested they just talk for a while and see if they really felt like doing this.
After more than an hour of talking, they decided to give it a try. They started kissing first, then she began to feel him up and see if she could get his cock hard. When she felt his jeans, he was already bulging so she knew he was ready. She suggested he lie on his back so she could help him off with his clothes.
He rolled over and she slowly undid his jeans and pulled both the jeans and his underwear down to at the same times. When she was finished, she decided to play with his cock. In the light coming through the window she could see his cock. It was both longer and thicker than mine (I am average).
She told him he had a beautiful, big penis and told him he’d have to take it real slow with her because he is a lot bigger than me. After sucking on it for a while, she told him it was time for them to have sex. She took off her panties and lied on her back with her legs spread wide for him. She said he was obviously a virgin – he didn’t do any foreplay at all – but he knew where to put it and started to try and push it into her. He pushed and pushed gently until finally, he got the first couple inches inside.
He slowly worked it in and out until he had passed the point where I usually reach inside her, and she said at that moment she had her first orgasm. He just sat still, not knowing what exactly to think of her screaming and convulsions. She told him it was good, and to keep fucking her.
It didn’t take long for him to cum, and she said she could feel it squirting into her, something she’d never experienced before. After he came, she told him he was fantastic. She had multiple orgasms for the first time during intercourse. As soon as he was hard again, they had sex again. Apparently this was the sex that I had heard, as I had slept through the first one. She told me they went to sleep after that. When they woke up, she had to have it one more time so she went down on him, got him hard and he climbed on top and fucked her again.
At the time, I was very happy for my wife to experience sex with another man and very happy for Jim to be able to lose his virginity with someone safe and experienced. I didn’t have any expectation for the fling to continue, but they had other ideas.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke with both my wife and my friend Jim afterward. They both enjoyed themselves very much. My wife claimed it was the best sex she had ever had (to this day).
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? My wife preferred sex with Jim over sex with me because he had a larger penis. This damaged my self-esteem a little, although I instigated this and should have been aware of the risks involved.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? My wife got to experience sex with another man and found that she really enjoyed it. That opened her up sexually to try new things and be more interested in sex in general.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Jim would still come by our house frequently to have sex with my wife and wasn’t exactly discreet about it. Also, even though she would still have sex with me, she admitted she enjoyed sex with Jim more and stopped being able to have orgasms with me via penetration (only oral).
Also, I was always worried the kids would figure it out. Thankfully they were young enough to not ask questions or think there was anything weird about mom being in the bedroom with another man.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sort of. You definitely should be careful about inviting others into your bedroom. There could be consequences. It was fun and we all had a great time, but there were some negative aspects to having another man with a larger penis having sex with my wife whenever they both felt like it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Jim and my wife continued having sex, including the whole time I was deployed. I’d sleep on the couch and occasionally go up to spy on them fucking. I had to admit, it was always an incredible site, but sleeping on the couch got old. This continued for the last two years we were overseas.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is great and should be more accepted.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great site
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