What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student/part-time sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s 48 years old, tall, and average looking. I work part-time at a communications retailer, and he came in to get a new phone. He works for a large company and was in town for a meeting and dropped his phone at the airport.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He was being very flirty as I worked on transferring his info. My work outfit is a basic polo shirt with khaki pants. He kept checking out my tits and staring at my butt when I had to bend over. Being curious, I wanted to see how far this would go, so I began flirting back. As I was setting up his cloud I noticed a few family photos of him with his wife. I’m not good with flirting and the only thing I could think of to say was, “Who’s the lucky lady?” He told me it was his wife but added that she never knows where or when he’s away on business. I gave him a smile and wink. He pointed at my ring finger and said, “Lucky guy.” I said, “I guess.” I told him my fiancé left for a few months on a mission and a “finding myself” trip. He said, “You know when men are away, we like to play.” I smiled. We flirted, and I loaded my number in his phone so we could send “test” messages. LOL. He asked if I was busy later. I told him I get off work in a couple of hours, and I would be interested. The store was starting to get busy, so we decided to text each other with more details. We messaged when I was between customers and slow periods. The plan was to meet him at his hotel when I left work. I was a little nervous but mostly excited and aroused with this opportunity.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He met me at the front entrance, and we went to his room. We removed our clothes, and I noticed he already had a few condoms and lube out. His penis was already hard and I sucked him while he massaged my tits. I was ready for sex, so I got on the bed. He started out on top. He began slow but quickly switched to fast hard thrusts. He had me on the edge, so I asked if we could switch. I got on top, and he used both hands to squeeze my tit. While I was riding him, he was pulling my butt cheeks open, and he snuck a finger in my butthole. That sent me into an orgasm quickly. He got on top and finished.
I was putting on my clothes and for some reason, I said, “Did you have fun?” He grinned and with a joking tone then pointed at the full condom and said, “I’ll let you decide.” I got dressed and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We’ve messaged and plan to hook-up the next time he’s in town. If we do, he’s someone I’d like to do anal with.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BFF Katie. She was excited and loved hearing the details. She told me in the future to send her a message before and after for safety reasons.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having great sex with someone I just met.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m in a serious relationship, but we don’t have sex often and when we do it’s vanilla. I enjoy having sex with experienced men because they know how to satisfy. It’s nice hooking-up with someone random and from out of town too.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was glad he had a good time, and I hope we can hook-up again.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Since I began having casual sex while in a serious relationship, I’m more open to the idea as long as it’s done discretely and with protection. Having sex with other guys have helped me enjoy sex more.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a good place to open up and share stories that I can only share with one person, my BFF. I enjoy reading other people’s stories too.
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