Wore Him Out

by Jenny

Gender: F
Age: 33
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Georgia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Educator
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Wore Him Out

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Let’s call him Mark. Mark was 6’3″ which was nice because I’m 6’0″. Mark and I met due to a dating/hookup app and went for drinks. Drinks turned into strolling an empty suburban downtown to sucking face on empty street corners, and finally back at my place. The sexual chemistry was insane. Everything I did he loved; everything he did drove me crazy. Sadly, neither one of us had a condom. We barely avoided swapping fluids and made a rain-check for later in the week.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Mark and I went for drinks two days after our initial meeting. I was late because I hit a deer on my way, but the car was driveable and Mark was ridiculously fuckable. . .So, I put off calling my insurer, and ambled over to the bar. We threw back a drink or so each and I asked if he wanted to head to my place. It was bizarrely awkward when we got to there considering we had been all but naked two days prior. Mark waited patiently while I secured my (totally cock-blocking) dogs and then we headed upstairs like it was some kind of assignment.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? All of the awkwardness ended the moment my bedroom closed. Mark was on me in an instant. He sat on the bed and pulled me into his lap; our clothes basically flew off. Mark had mentioned he was a bit of a pussy connoisseur, and he made a bee-line for cunnilingus. It was incredible. The dude had skill. I came really hard. Mark tried to get me to have multiple orgasms, but I get a little over-sensitive and asked him to stop; he did. I immediately went to reciprocate and Mark said to just “enjoy the afterglow.” So, we chilled for a few minutes and chatted about nothing in particular while I basked in the awesome. Talking turned to petting which turned into pretty passionate humping. Mark fingered me which resulted in my begging him to “fuck me.” Mark had been strong but fairly tender up until this point. I tend to prefer rough sex and I like to be restrained to some degree or other. But, this isn’t really something I bring up in random hookups since I have a regular dom I see for that sort of thing. Anyway, Mark kind of gently tapped my ass and I really responded. This caused Mark to hit harder and I loved it. Mark quickly put on a condom, folded me in half, and fucked me so hard. In-between moaning, gasping, and just generally cussing, I told Mark that while I love penetration I never can orgasm that way and that he should focus on his pleasure. Mark laughed, pushed his hand on my neck a bit (which I totally loved) and came really hard himself.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Mark went down on me three more times resulting in three more (stupendous) orgasms. He fucked me three more times. He orgasmed twice more, but I had worn him out and he was unable to finish bout three. But, there was no weirdness; we had been actively fucking for nearly five hours at that point.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Mark and I had talked about our STI status the night we met (we were both clean). We used condoms during each penetrative sexual encounter. We did not use any disease prevention for oral sex. I am not on the pill or any form of pregnancy prevention and I made Mark aware of this on the night we met.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I love sex, Mark was hot, and chemistry like that is rare.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We each had 2 drinks spaced over about an hour and half at the bar prior to going to my place.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Mark totally shocked me and slept over. He asked me to set an alarm for him, which I did. The alarm woke me up and I started to get up to see him out. . .But, he kissed me and asked if I was cool with him showing himself out. I was fine with that. We texted a few times after, and I would’ve been interested in pursuing more sex. But, there were a few weird, hinky things about Mark that make me think he wasn’t quite who he seemed. I don’t think he was lying to get laid per se; I was pretty direct about wanting to have sex so there was no reason to lie. In retrospect, I think he may be married and/or traveling for business and/or have some life issue that made him feel he had to be duplicitous.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my sister and my gay best friend. My sister has long thought I was/am a slut and while she tries to reserve judgement I still feel it. My gay best friend knows I’m a bit of a slut, and knows that being a slut is just one more thing an empowered woman can be.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes. We both wanted to fuck like bunnies.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hookup was how amazing the sex was; the worst thing is that I think the guy lying a bit about who he was. I work really hard to never mess with someone’s relationship; so I really, really, really hope that this guy is just a weird liar dude and not a married dude. I have never -to my knowledge- fucked a married dude.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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