You Can Only Pleasure Me

by hornyokc

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Colorado
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Funemployment
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bi-curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

You can only pleasure me

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on okcupid. He was an ok looking, chubby, Italian guy around my age. I don’t think I ever knew his name. We quickly figured out that for the next few days we were living in the same building in New York. I had just moved in for my summer internship and he was moving out in a few days because the semester was ending. He was a virgin and desperately wanted to lose it before going home for the summer.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had just finished my second day of my internship. I was exhausted because I was still getting used to that 9-5 grind. He texted me and really wanted to fuck that night. I told him I was too tired but after I ate dinner I was feeling really horny. I also knew he had never given oral and really wanted to so I texted him and said he could come over and give me oral but I was too tired to fuck or do anything for him (I really was too tired). I gave him my room number and said I was lying in my bed and the door was open. I td him to come in and leave the lights off. He came over soon after, sat on my bed and we exchanged pleasentries and quickly started making out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Soon he was pulling down my pants and panties and rubbing me all over. He quickly started giving me oral. It felt amazing because even though I had had sex before I had never had oral. Turns out he wasn’t very good but at the time if felt great. He eventually came back up and sucked on my tits while fingering me. He had no idea how to finger a girl and it actually hurt like hell. Finally he went back down on me until I pretended to cum because I knew he wasn’t gonna get me there. We made out a little more and I could feel he was rly hard but we had agred only I was getting pleasure that night so he left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? As soon as he left I masturbsted so I could actually cum and then I went to bed. He texted me the next day and for the next few days trying to find a time to meet up and actually fuck. We never found a time mostly because I was really busy but also because I didn’t really want to. He moved out of the building and we haven’t spoken since. I wonder if he lost his virginity yet and what the heck his name was.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told a few friends and many future partners. They all think it’s a pretty great story.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting oral for the first time and having an awesome story to tell for years.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? How bad he was at fingering me and that he tasted like cigarette smoke so much that I still remember the taste.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have since learned that fingering can and should be pleasurable and if someone knows how to give oral it’s even better.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Sometimes you just gotta do it for the story.

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