A 2:00am Visitor



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? South Africa
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Spiritual
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

A 2:00am Visitor

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mr C caught my eye on Tinder. He is a tall, blonde and athletically built guy with a big smile and delicious lips.
We both clarified early on during our chats that we were both not looking for anything serious and discussed meeting briefly in a public place (As a safety precaution) before we would go to my place for sex. We agreed to meet on the Sunday morning. There was some steamy sexting during the week that had me so horny, I barely slept the entire week – I was very excited to meet him!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had a typically chilled Friday evening at home and received a message from Mr C on Tinder well after midnight checking if I was awake, which I was. We were both extremely horny and I decided I couldn’t wait until Sunday for him so I eventually texted him my home address which is one of the riskiest things I have ever done. I was extremely nervous and occupied myself with shaving my legs and choosing something to wear while I was waiting for him.
He arrived at my house at 2:00am and boy, were we both wrecked with nerves! We decided to have an (alcoholic) drink to calm ourselves down which I nervously scrounged around my kitchen for…. At one point I felt him close behind me reaching for the one bottle (he is super tall compared to me) and I became very excited knowing that I would be having sex with him that night.
We sat down on the couch and drank our drinks making conversation until we felt a bit more comfortable… I then asked him if he wanted to make out and things heated up pretty quickly from there…

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started off kissing on the couch and his hands were moving up and around my thigh area turning me on fast. We got up and kissed all the way to my bedroom and started to undress each other… I was wearing a bulky jersey over a red nightie which got unzipped and taken off very fast…. He was wearing jeans, a tshirt and a jersey which I got him out of pretty quickly. His hands did a lot of roaming, he realised I cheekily wasn’t wearing any underwear and started fingering my already wet and swollen pussy and before I knew it, we were both naked on my bed…

He went down on me first, teasing me with his tongue, sliding his fingers in and out while sucking hard on my clit… I came pretty fast and felt amazing
Still on my back he got on top of me and started rubbing his hard dick against my lips, not penetrating me yet. I remember getting wetter and wetter and he got harder and harder…. I kept urging him to put on a condom because I wanted him in me… BAD. He got the condom was on and he finally thrust his big dick inside of me and we did it missionary style…. It didn’t take me long to come again… He somehow managed to last…

We decided to change positions so I got on top of him but we were struggling to keep the condom on and it was honestly becoming a mood killer. After briefly discussing our recent STD tests and the fact that I had a Mirena, I decided it was safe to have sex without a condom so we tossed it and I got on top of him determined to make him come. I rode his hard dick until we both came… I loved feeling him tense up and throb inside of me as his cum was oozing out…. We both needed a breather after that…

We continued to fool around and have sex throughout the night…. I am good at giving head and managed to get him to cum again in my mouth, jerking him off as I sucked him dry….

We eventually went to sleep as it started getting light outside and I was happy to let him stay over…

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I saw Mr C for sex a few times that weekend and was unbelievably satisfied and excited. It had been a while since I last got laid.
We still continue to hook up and even get on well as friends. The sex is great and easy! The arrangement we have works well for both of us at the moment…

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have told a few friends and they are pleased I am enjoying myself

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Amazing oral sex and the fact that I found someone I was so sexually compatible with by chance

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? My attitude to sex is a lot more casual than what it used to be

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Ideally I would like to find someone I can have a lifelong relationship with but this is not happening for me in a natural and organic way. This also means I don’t get to have frequent sex and prefer not to have many one night stands…. This experience (and the subsequent experiences I have had with Mr C) helps me because that physical “itch” gets scratched and also if I had to meet someone relationship worthy, I would not sleep with them too soon because I am desperately horny. It is win win for us both

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Brilliant – The stories make me wet my panties

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