A Little Domination Fun



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? Over 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Media/communication
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open to new experiences
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Lots
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

A Little Domination Fun

How long ago did this hookup happen? Four days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Highly erotic experience

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a gorgeous, 20-something blond, with long hair, big eyes, and a great figure! She had long legs, a round and well-shaped rear end, perfect breasts and a beautiful face. She could not have been more attractive! I first saw her at a dungeon bar in a major German city; she was sitting with her partner, a fellow dressed all in black and her master/owner. They had arrived later in the evening, and sat quietly off to the side of the main group, chatting and having a drink.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?After a while, I noticed that the couple had gotten up and disappeared into the playroom at the back of the club. Access was open to anyone at the bar (there were three couples, a dozen or so singles plus the bar staff), so I made my way to the back room. Getting there, I passed another couple who were having a fabulous play session in the corridor, with the naked woman cuffed and chained to the wall while her master beat her rear, back, and legs. I stopped to watch for a bit, just in time to see him put down the strap and run his fingers between her legs, then start to vigorously vibrate his fingers and hand, pushing into her pussy. After just a few moments, she came with a yell, squirting all over the wall and floor. Both seemed to be having a great time. Her backside was glowing red from the beating she had just received.

At the end of the corridor, I spotted gorgeous blonde and her master in the playroom, getting ready for a session. The door was left open, which I gather meant that viewers were welcome (at least, they didn’t object to my coming in), so I stepped in, and quietly occupied one of the two comfy armchairs in the room, located just a few metres from a large cushioned mattress supported on a platform at waist height.

The gorgeous blond was in stiletto heels, undressed, almost naked with only thong panties and a ripped tee-shirt that only came down to just below her breasts. Master was tying her up, using some well-practiced shibari techniques, with her arms bound and confined above her head and pulled down to her waist at her back. She was helpless. She whimpered a bit as he ordered her to bend over the cushioned platform, which left her stunningly gorgeous legs, ass and back fully exposed.

To make a long story short, her beating proceeded, apparently, according to the master’s well-thought-out plans; he spanked her relentlessly and used a variety of implements (whip, cane, strap, pinwheel, bare hand, etc.) on her ass, legs, feet, arms, back and neck – and it was a delight to watch! She moaned, cried, whimpered and struggled, but whenever she tried to move away, her master yanked the ropes binding her arms, and she was pulled back into position on the platform. I had never seen anything like that before live; it was an incredibly erotic, stimulating experience (for all of us!) taking place just two meters in front of me!

At one point, another bar patron, a tall male, had joined us and had slipped quietly into the other comfy chair. We were now two spectators being treated to an amazingly intense beating that was being enjoyed by all.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

Following a particularly long episode with the leather strap, which included multiple whacks on her ass cheeks, thinly covered pussy and inner thighs, her master leaned into her ear and hissed, “I will now allow our spectators to provide three smacks each to you anywhere they chose. You will count.”

He then turned to each of us and said, warmly and kindly, “Gentlemen, join me. Would you please provide three smacks each?”

I looked at the other guy watching, who looked at me with equal surprise; we both motioned the other to go first; the other guy seemed a bit shyer and again motioned me to go first, so I did.

The master stepped aside, and I stood directly behind the gorgeous blonde. I ran my hands gently up and down the skin of her legs and ass, and over her back, all of which was red and warm to the touch. What an amazing feeling! She was buzzing with energy, and it felt incredible to be gently stroking the gorgeous, creamy smooth flesh that had just moments before felt the sting of the leather strap.

I then dug in my fingernails and repeated the strokes, this time using my nails to scratch up and down her legs a couple of times. She shook and wiggled, gasping with the pain this surely generated. I then stopped, removed my hands from her and then gave her a full-arm-extended, stinging smack on her right ass cheek. She jumped, cried out, then said, very weakly, “One!”

I then repeated the stinging smack with my other hand, on her left ass cheek, and she again obediently called out, “Two!” I then stroked her legs up and down one more time, my fingers lingering on her wet pussy, before pulling back and giving her the third stinging smack on her right ass check again. It was magnificent!

The master thanked me and then motioned the other ‘guest’ to come up. He did and repeated the smacks I had applied, then returned to his seat.

The beating continued for a bit after that, until the master eventually decided she’d had enough. He then untied gorgeous blonde, who weakly helped him put away his infernal implements, and the two then hugged for a long time.

As the play session appeared over, I stood up, thanked the master and told gorgeous blonde she had done a terrific job – she smiled and thanked me! – and returned to the bar.

Later that evening, I saw them sitting in a big leather chair in the corridor, kissing passionately.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was amazing – a profoundly sexy, erotic experience that didn’t involve any sex. I was honored and humbled to have been asked to join in. It was my first real experience/exposure to the world of kink, and it was great. I hope I can explore this world more in the future.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Power / Dominance, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? Her master consented, and she, apparently, agreed

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity; the trust that both the master and gorgeous blonde put in me and the overall highly charged erotic situation. Oh, and the fact that the blonde was so lovely and yet pouting and submissive.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had to rely on the slave’s master for consent, but I believe that is part of the experience.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has opened my eyes to my dominant side. Am looking forward to exploring that more in the future.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish people would not feel so guilty about sex, and that our society would be more accepting of sex between consenting adults.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great site! I check it every few weeks to catch up.

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