A Wedding!



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Minneapolis
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Nurse
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

A Wedding!

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a year ahead of me in high school. He was thin, 6’4″, a basketball player. 10 years later he was a well-developed man! Bigger shoulders, and all around bigger. I remember seeing him at prom and I liked him then, but now, WOW. He went to college and lives in London so I had not seen him in 10 years.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at a wedding and he was attending. We had talked earlier then danced together.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went out on a balcony and started making out. His hands, and mine started wandering. He ended up inside my dress and someone came out on the balcony. I went to the bathroom and took off my thong. I gave it to him and asked him to hold it. He said, “Are you going to make me an offer I can not refuse?” “What about brunch tomorrow?””How about we have a drink at the bar”. We went downstairs and had a drink. From there we went to my room. As soon as the door closed, he had my dress up, me bent over the bed and was tasting me. He went everywhere and his oral skills were exceptional. I turned around, got on my knees and blew him. From there we went to 69. Then he said,”Paper or plastic?” A reference to my father owning a grocery store. “I prefer neither, I have an IUD.” He got on me and we switched positions a few times before he was back on top riding like a jockey at the finish of a horse race. He asked, “Where do you want it?” Note to guys, a pearl necklace may look good in porn but if a girl lets you do it raw, she probably wants it inside, with me cumming before you or at the same time. “Deep inside”. He went even harder and we came together. We went to sleep. Later that night I heard him get up to go the the bathroom. I did not realize he returned with the tub of vaseline on the counter. He snuggled up to my back, was kissing the back of my neck and hands wandering up and down my back. His hands went between my legs and touched the forint. I was thoroughly enjoying this and really do not mind being woken up like this. Then his finger went in me, “Is your finger in my butt?” “Yes, is this ok?” “I guess”. Flashbacks to being in stirrups at the OBGYN’s office and her saying,”You are going to feel some pressure on your anus as I do a quick rectal exam”. No man had ventured here before. He turned me over and went down on me. More fingers in the butt. The whole erotic experience and the man really turned me on. I came. “I have to put this in you!” “Where do you want to put it?” “Your ass.” Another flashback, sitting around my senior year of college with a group of girls and we talked about what we would never do, one said anal, another girl piped in, “Actually, if he goes slow and uses plenty of lube, it feels pretty good.” Lube, check, can he go slow, I’m about to find out. He put a pillow under my bottom and I lifted my legs. More vaseline and three well lubed fingers. “Go slow””I will’. Time stood still as he entered. “That’s great, can you take it out?” it was not very comfortable. “Let’s lie still for a minute or two and it will feel better”. We did. Then he began that oh, so sweet motion, except he was in the WRONG HOLE. “Where is it at?””My ass.” It seems kind of strange but those magic words sent him over the edge and he came in the WRONG HOLE. “Is that the way you do it on London?” “Actually, it is the Christian position”. “The Christian position?””Yeah, for girls that do not want vaginal sex before marriage”. “I think the innocence is lost with that”.”Your right.” He woke me up with the morning wood. “I’m good, I do not need it this morning.”

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Aside from an icky poo in the morning and my butt being a little sore, I felt great. Maybe slightly hungover, I clarified at the bar that night, “I do not expect anything but a nice night out of this.” Ironically, I picked up a cheap ticket to London in a month, so who knows?

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few people at the wedding. They thought he was a good choice.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was just fun. Dancing, the tension building, his oral skills.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That he had to fly out the next day.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? In college, when I heard about anal, I thought, “Eww, I will never do that.” I have grown sexually and become more mature.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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