Chat With a Stranger

by Hannah

Gender: Female
Age: 17
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: England
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Chat With a Stranger

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Webcam one time thing

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? i was chatting anonymously. it was some random guy half way across the world

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was bored at home, (i live with my parents) so I went on an online chat site for fun, created a profile and this people popped up to talk. I talked to one random guy who asked to talk on skype very soon into the slightly sexual conversation. My gut reaction was ‘no you perv’ but then i thought… well who am i to judge? just because he’s the guy doesn’t mean he’s more pervy than me. we’re both talking sexually on a chat site. its not even like he knew i was only seventeen. there was no avatar picture either.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? he gave me his skype details. i called him. he looked about the same age as me to be honest. i asked him to take his jacket off (on instant messaging) he said ‘do you want to see more’ I didn’t really care or feel that turned on, just excited because it was something new for me- doing it online.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? i didn’t, but did afterwards on my own. i felt too self conscious on camera. he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? nothing, we were just masturbating

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? bored.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? no

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? i have no guilt or anything. the next day i felt sexy, and empowered. i felt like i had my own dirty secret that no one else knew about. i plan to never speak to him again, he tried to add me as a friend on skype. i was happy for it to be a one time thing only

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? wanted for both of us. i didn’t take it that seriously.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no, no real strong feelings about it. it will be funny to tell someone about it when im drunk im sure it will slip out at some point

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? best- not all actions have consequences?
worst- maybe im gay afterall, because he didn’t turn me on… i turned myself on more
no change in the way i think

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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