Craigslist Lover



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Atlanta Georgia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Hairstylist
What’s your current relationship status? Sexless marriage hell
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bicurious
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open to experiences
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 45+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

Craigslist Lover

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I placed an ad on Craigslist to explore my sexual fantasies discreetly. I wanted to find a female to show me what its like to be with a woman

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Tina answered my ad and her email stood out among the almost 100 other responses. We exchanged #’s talked and set up a coffee meet to see if we felt like taking things further.
Of course, I was very nervous and she picked up on that and assured me that if I wasn’t comfortable we could stop at any point, no pressure.
That eased my mind and we decided to take it to her place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She drove and I took Uber to her house. She gave me a drink and started caressing my shoulders saying how very tense I was. It felt so good her touching me, rubbing my neck then she kissed my neck and sent shivers down to my toes. She then began kissing her way back up to my face looking in my eyes before kissing my lips. I was so hot for her right then. I knew I was going to finally be with a woman like my fantasies of late.
She asked if I was sure and I said positively sure. She began undressing me right there in the living room
She had my clothes off and hers too then had me sit on the stool as she trailed her tongue down to my wetness. She parted my legs and started circling my clit with her tongue. I came within a minute shuddering so hard! I have never felt anything like it before. She knew just how to bring me to pleasure again and again. I thought I couldn’t cum anymore, then she made me cum a few more times. She climbed up beside me and asked if that was ok? I laughed and replied it was. She said ok I hope we see each other again soon turned and left !!! Before I could get my wits about me, she had called my Uber and had driven off as the Uber pulled in her drive.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wanted to do to her what she had done to me, but as of yet I can’t get anything but her voicemail when I call. I could go to her house but I promised to be discreet so I must restrain myself. I want to meet with her again but I don’t know if it will happen or not.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one as it has to be kept a secret

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Amazing multiple orgasms

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t get to reciprocate

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I want to experience it more

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? The stigma of casual sex needs to change. There are so many people who judge you by your sexual hookups and if your a girl ur not supposed to do that!!! Hahaha

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