What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? home improvement
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? `13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? No hookup
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was about 5’8″, 22 at the time (I was 30) beautiful eyes and the way she did her eyeliner and maker up, very beautiful…very beautiful skin tone, beautiful face, small breasts, wide hips, and legs for days. (YES!). I didn’t know her that well but always thought she was attractive, we only worked on campus for that school year
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? During the end of school celebration, several friends/co-workers and I went out for drinks at the local bar. Some bar located in a warehousing district. she got really drunk, while I had about 3 Lemmy’s. (jack and coke). as everyone starts to leave we all walk everyone to their respective cars, as I am walking her to her car she holds onto my arm, I didn’t think anything of it, the area seemed sketchy to me anyways. while at her car she asked me a question, “want a BJ?”
I was completely surprised because she was in a relationship and I even commented about it, “What about your boyfriend?” she responded, “I don’t see him here…..I’m really horny right now and sucking dick gets me hot!” Fuck no was I going to say no to getting my dick sucked by a beautiful girl much younger than me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I looked around for a secluded area for us to go and noticed a park bench down a bit. We sat down and started kissing. My hands started to wander on her legs making its way to her chest. I liked the way her tits felt and instantly popped one out and started sucking on it. I started getting at her neck and she moaned “right there, that’s my spot!” I instantly moved my hand down and started rubbing her pants near her pussy, she grabbed my hand and said, “I’m on my period.” Ok, no problem.
I was hard and wanted her mouth on my dick. I found an area that had tall and thick bushes for us to hide behind so I grabbed her by the hand and took her over there. She whipped my dick out and started sucking. I liked how she would look at me while sucking. Now I’m no porn star but I liked the way she took my dick in her throat. I’ve never had that experience before, needless to say, it felt great. She would suck me off a bit and I reached down to play with her tits, I liked it even more when she popped both tits out and used one hand to play with and pinch her nipples. I can tell she had good technique but, for me, I like my balls played with while receiving a BJ. I communicated that to her, “Play with my balls,” but she would only do it for like 5 seconds. disappointing.
She sucked for what seemed like a while and got tired and frustrated and stopped. She got mad and hit my stomach saying “What the hell? I know I’m good at sucking dick but you didn’t cum” I told her directly, 1) I like my balls played with and you didn’t do so long enough 2) I’m not that comfortable with the atmosphere (public space) & 3) i have stamina and can last a while… she got mad because I didn’t cum.
I told her “I’m fine with not orgasming, but how about I give you one.” she looked at me with a questioning face. I told her,” You’re on your period, what you got down there? tampon? or pad?” she replied “Tampon.”
I started scratching her inner thighs and stomach, unbuttoned her pants and started to put my hand inside. I turned my body to her side for better positioning and ended up putting her in what I called an “Ecstasy hold” where its right hand down her pants (between her legs), the left hand wrapped around so I can grab her tits and/or neck, and my mouth had easy access to her neck and ear. My right hand had made its way to her clit and noticed she has no pubic hair (such a turn on!) she let out a moan, but once my hand touched her clit she grabbed my hand and said, “No, that’s just weird” apparently she wasn’t comfortable with my fingering her clit while she was on her period. Obviously, we stopped and put our clothes back on.
I then walked her to her
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? we set up a hook up date obviously when shes not on her period and departed
the day comes and i invite her over— she decides to not come over anymore and tells me — that prior to blowing me she blew some other guy about an hr before. WTF!!!!
Then she starts telling me that she doesn’t want to come over because she doesn’t want to cheat on her BF…. but yet, hypocritically, she had already told me that she was cheating on him with another guy. Regardless, we didn’t hook up.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends, they were excited about how she straight out asked if I wanted a BJ…and disgusted that she had blown someone prior to blowing me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting my dick sucked
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not orgasming … and her not following through
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
I do wish that more women would be more upfront about what they want regarding sexual behaviors.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? love it
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