What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 16
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Ohio
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
First car sex
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? No hookup
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well, my boyfriend isn’t chubby but has a little fat, he’s muscular and has great arms. He’s kind of a dirty blonde with medium blue/hazel eyes that change color. He’s athletic and cute. We met at school, he DMed me and we kind of started talking since then. It wasn’t serious, but I had a crush on him and at the time I didn’t know he did too. We became friends I think and snapchatted about every night. We flirted a little, after a while he stopped trying to get me because he thought I didn’t like him. 2 weeks later I went to a get-together thing and one of his friends told me he liked me and I should get with him. I was kind of excited because I didn’t know he liked me. I told him how I felt and he felt pretty much the same. We started talking from then hung out a few times and it got serious. He asked me out and we’ve been together since. It hasn’t been long at all really but today is our 5 months.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was national girlfriend day on August 1st and I told my boyfriend we needed to see each other. We did, he took me out to eat and after talking for awhile and got bored I imagined sex with him. After we were done and got in the car I told him I was horny, I gave him road head for the first time and I just felt like I needed something too. On the way home, we stopped and look for a place to do it at. I was nervous and was trying to figure out a place where we could. I remembered this rocky place with a cute pond and thought it’d be perfect. It was around midnight and we could find it. So we just parked at a company and thought it was closed. But we were kind of in the middle of a neighborhood and someone started flashing a flashlight at us while getting dressed to leave.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We took his Jeep which had a sunroof on it. The sky was filled stars, climbed in the back and I was nervous because it was our third time having sex and it was our first in a car. I thought it’d be terrible, but it was pretty fun. We started kissing and took off our pants, we kept our shirts on though. I gave him head while he was feeling my body a little bit. He said he was ready so I stopped and got on top, we didn’t have much room but it was enough. We didn’t switch any positions just to keep it simple. We also didn’t use a condom because he didn’t have any on him, so that’s also made me nervous. But I got up when he told me too, just in time. He took me back home and afterward I skinny dipped with some friends.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After it happened, we started having a lot of car sex every time we went out. It was a good solution if my parents were home. I feel the same about my boyfriend, just gained more feelings the more we had sex.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my sister after the hookup, I had to. I tell her everything. She was shocked we did it but happy for me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It gave us the confidence to just do it anywhere in a quiet dark spot we could find! It’s amazing and makes us closer.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing was bad about the hookup.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This hookup made me feel like a whore but I enjoyed every second.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great for people that want to share stories and let things out that they can’t hold back anymore.
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