What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 56
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Singapore
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Club Owner
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Married to a woman, although enjoy sex with younger men.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 36
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
First Drunken M2M Tryst
How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I own a nightclub back in Germany and had been in Singapore to visit a new club that just opened. I went along with 2 other male friends who were exactly like me, married but hoping to pick up young men at the club and we were dancing and chilling around when I saw this guy. He was about 5’10, a little hunky, Chinese, probably early 20’s. He was with his friends and they all seemed pretty much to the point of blackouts.
I myself was quite tipsy and then I thought to myself, maybe i could give him a ride back and stopover at my place for a little fun? He didn’t look bisexual or gay.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One point I saw him head to the male toilet. Walking sideways. I followed him to see where it’ll lead to. He entered the cubicle, did not lock the door so I stood outside to wait. After a while I sort of peeped inside and he looked passed out sitting on the toilet bowl with his jeans pulled down a little.
Tried to wake him but he just shook his head and was probably too drunk and he fell asleep. I locked the cubicle door. It was my chance to have him for that moment. The toilet was too busy for anyone to notice.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I dropped my pants, pulled out my cock, stepped closer to him and gently brushed my cock against his cheeks. He didn’t move a bit. So I jacked off right there until I felt myself going to cum. That’s when I placed my cock halfway into his mouth and cummed inside him. Cum slid out of his mouth and down towards his shirt. Still, he just coughed a little and went back to sleeping. I kissed and licked his neck, massaged him a little before removing his jeans completely.
Then I knelt down and took his cock in my mouth, sucked it until he came. I’m not sure whether he was secretly awake or just his body was going with the flow. With his cum in my mouth, I put my mouth against his and let his cum all over his face.
Later I bent him over his back, and rimmed his ass while he slouched over the toilet bowl. I didn’t anal him as he might have woken up.
After about 30 minutes or so, I brought him back to his normal seating position, wore back his jeans, and took a last go at his mouth with my cock. I thrust my cock into his mouth until I came again and shot it all inside his mouth. To my surprise, he swallowed! Gave him a kiss and then left the cubicle, unlocked. Left a note too with some cash and my contact number.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went back to my friends and it turned out one of them had managed to pick up another young guy, and they were back at our hotel. I slept off and the following morning received a message from an unknown number and turned out it was him last night and he was shocked, probably mad or so. He was straight. I told him to lock his cubicle next time, and don’t get passed out. He hung up. Random text came after, “Your cum was somewhat tasty though”. Well done.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Shared with my friends. They suggest I give that boy a call again to have another round. I didn’t, but wished I did. He tastes amazing.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally getting the opportunity to have oral sex with another guy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He was practically lifeless throughout the encounter.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Not really
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