First Time, and Last Time

by JT

What’s your gender? Man
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time, and Last Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? Less than a year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? No hookup

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was dating this 5’5 mixed girl at my old school. We decided to have sex, it would be our first time. We knew eachother from English class, I liked her, a lot.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started when we were dating, I was sitting close to her and I started to touch her thigh, I went closer to her vaginal area and she let me. We got on the phone and talked about it, we decided to go on another date to get away from our parents for at least oral sex.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? There were 2 hookups, the first at a gokart place and the 2nd at her place. The 1st one started when we went on our date when we went into a maze, I lead her to the back of it and I fingered her in her pants while she played with my penis, in my pants. We went over to this wooded area across the street and I put my jacket down at we had oral sex, for 20 minutes. We went back to the place, walked in the maze and she gave me a handy and we left. The 2nd one happened when I biked to her house, we had oral and vaginal sex, we 69ed, and we showered, it was fun, we both loved it. There were also some touching at school, she let me touch her boobs and play with her vag, I let her play with my dick. We did tell our friends because of truth or dare. It ended when I moved.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I hoped it would happen again, then her parents found out about pics she sent me. I don’t want to talk to her anymore.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, withdrawal.

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, attraction to partner(s), learning new things, experimenting, emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, hoping or expecting it would lead to something more.

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends, they were surprised.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit.

Why do you regret this hookup? It was dumb.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex, she was a nice girl.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Her parents.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I should slow down

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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