First Time ‘With’ a Girl



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

First Time ‘With’ a Girl

How long ago did this hookup happen? A week

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Out of the blue hookup

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a beauty therapist, slim, young, pretty, short blonde hair, normal friendly girl! I went for my regular full body massage at the spa and she happened to be the lady doing it, never seen/ met her before. I didn’t even think about her in the way nor was it in my mind.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went for a full body massage, I do a lot of sport so I regularly have one at my local spa to help ease up. I went into the treatment room and she asked me to remove all my clothes apart from my pants and get under the towel and she’d be back, nothing abnormal! Every so often I also get a facial and this was one of those times, she started with the facial we were chatting just general chit chat, she did my facial put a pack on that needed to sit, my eyes were covered and closed with eye pads. Then she started on my massage, she started with my chest and as soon as she started massaging the tops of my boobs the towel slid off exposing both my boobs she quickly said she was really sorry and pulled it back up, as she did so her hands brushed my nipples and it felt pretty good (I love guys playing with my nipples) I was a little embarrassed but these things happen, I said it was fine and she complimented my boobs and said how nice they were and they were so big, this made it awkward so the general chit chat kinda ended and we were in silence with just the background music. She continued with the massage taking her time with my chest which I thought was weird but it felt really good, she moved to my legs and massaging my thighs, it was really sensual this time and I found I was getting a little turned on but I tried to put it to the back of my mind. She finished my front and came back up to wipe my face clean she spilt some water on my chest, looking back now I think it was deliberate she apologised and wiped it up but as she did so the towel slid down again, she didn’t do anything, I went to pull it up and she intervened and went ‘oh so sorry I got distracted by them, they look so good’ and gave them a squeeze before pulling the towel up, she cleaned my face and asked me to turn over, which I did she massaged my back the top of my bum she compliment this as well, she massaged the back of my legs, going up high on my thighs she got quite close to my pussy I think she must have brushed it but it was so quick I can’t be sure. She must have felt I was a bit wet as, as I think as she touched it she went ‘oh’ and quickly moved on. The towel was just over my bum at this point and she said ‘you’re all done you can turn over’ which I did but the towel was still low so I held my boobs to cover them, she laughed and said ‘I think I know what they look like now, you can let them go’ I felt awkward so just said ‘it’s ok’ but still held them she told me to sit up so I wouldn’t get stuck with the oil, as I did so she said ‘I just can’t get over how amazing they are’ and put her hand over mine on my boob, her face was so close, she leaned in and kissed me. I was in shock so didn’t push her off then she started a more passionate kiss and using tongue it felt really good, I forgot about holding my boobs.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She must have noticed me letting go of my boobs and used this as an opportunity as she then started playing with my nipples as she kissed me, then she sucked one and played with the other, I couldn’t help but moan this was all the encouragement she needed as she moved her hand down to my pussy, rubbing it over my pants, she said ‘I thought you were wet’ she started kissing me again as she slipped her hand inside my pants and started rubbing my clit and fingering me, I’m all about the sensual things and pleasure so with her kissing me and rubbing my clit and alternating between kissing me neck and sucking my tits, I came pretty quick. She was so happy! She said she ‘wanted a taste’ and pulled down my pants and started licking me out it felt great but seeing a girl lick me out suddenly brought me back to earth and I stopped her and said sorry it was good but it felt weird. She agreed and came and stood over me, saying it was okay because she loved my tits anyway, she was stood like behind my head and bent over me to suck on them again, at some point I don’t remember when she must have taken her top off because as she sucked on my tits her tits were in my face, she moved up and kissed me, as my mouth was open she put her nipple in my mouth I did one suck when she stopped me and said ‘sorry I’m actually dripping’ pulled her trousers and pants off and climbed on top, scissoring me, rubbing her clit against mine. I’ve always thought as myself as straight, but my god there is something amazing about two dripping wet pussies rubbing against each other, she came so quickly she was shaking but she didn’t stop she kept going, basically screaming I don’t know how she wasn’t heard, a little while later I came again. She kissed me and told me I was amazing. I was a little confused and said I should go, got dressed, paid and went.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left and I haven’t seen her since. I’m really confused, I have always been curious about clit rubbing but never thought I would do it as an only interested in men or have been. I didn’t expect it to be that good!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No-one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? I don’t know who am I now

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to test my curiosity

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I’m questioning my sexuality

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is fun, as long as you haven’t got a partner (who doesn’t know you’re doing it or consent to you doing it) then you aren’t harming anyone

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s awesome!

Needs more girl on girl stories though, yes I am intrigued to know more now

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