What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White/Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Computer Programming
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Half Sister Confusion.
How long ago did this hookup happen? 13 Years Ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Unique Situation
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was adopted and separated from my half siblings when we were very young. Being the oldest, I was 5 years old when adopted. My sister was 4. My brother was 3. After we were adopted, I never saw or heard from them. So naturally, I forgot exactly how they looked. When I was 18 and my sister was 17, we met at a mall, but only hung out through mutual friends. At the time, I didn’t know this was my long lost half-sister and she didn’t know I was her half brother. We began to hang out more just as friends over the next few months. I honestly thought she was hot as fuck. She had long brown hair with blonde streaks, thick, soft double d sized tits, a thick figure, and had a very gothy way of dressing. I’m very much into that kind of thing.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One night, she was at my house and we were browsing MySpace, and we both just happened to turn towards each other after making fun of a couple people we knew and then began kissing. We took it to the bedroom and ripped each other’s clothes off. I would say she probably instigated it because she later told me that she had been thinking of this for a while.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Immediately, after the initial kissing and feeling all over her body, I made my way down to her pussy and went to town. She was by far the sweetest girl I have ever tasted and by far the easiest to get off. I could feel her spasming with my tongue and lips. After that, she climbed on top of me and rode me good. To this day, I have not felt a tighter pussy at all. She was so loving and you could tell she legitimately wanted this. When I told her I was going to cum, she started grinding me harder and directed me to cum inside her. I fought to pull out, but she forced me to cum inside her. At the time, she gripped my penis with her vaginal muscles and gave me the most Earth shattering orgasm I have ever had. Luckily, she told me she was on the pill afterwards. We went at it 3 more times until I was sore as fuck. I don’t know how she wasn’t.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was amazing! We started dating for a while after until I finally met her adopted mother who informed me that she remembered me as a kid and that was my siblings. After checking various sources, it was confirmed… I had been fucking and was in a relationship with my own sister. It was the strangest feeling. Luckily she never told her mom the full nature of our relationship. Even after finding out, we still dated and had sex for a few months afterwards. We never really officially ended it. It just kind of died out because now people knew that we were siblings. Weirdest time of my life, but honestly, the best sex I have ever had.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Mistakenly, I told my now ex wife who then started to try to sleep with my sister and get us to have a threesome. I didn’t want that and neither did my sister.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? At the time, she was the perfect girl. We were best friends and hung out regularly. There wasn’t really an element of flirtiness or sex until the first night we did anything.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Finding out that she was my half sister. That was depressing to me. I kept thinking, “What are the fucking chances!?”.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? As farfetched as this story is, I honestly miss having that kind of relationship with my sister. I am married to another woman and live a couple states away from her now, so we barely ever communicate.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It would be wise to play it safe. Condoms, the pill, and anything else you can use to protect yourself. I was pretty stupid early on in life.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent project!
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