Just For The Diversity..

by Laura

Age: 32
Race/ethnicity: White/Middle Eastern
Location: Korea
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Teacher
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Asexual (please add to the list)
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Just For The Diversity..

How long ago did this hookup happen? Never

How would you best classify this hookup? None

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? No partners

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So actually, this is not a story of a hookup exactly. I am asexual and not attracted to anyone, and also have never had sex. But I thought for a collection of stories that it would be good for the diversity to add asexual voices to the mix.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about not hooking up (note: I don’t judge those who do, I’m just not attracted to others) is probably feeling less pressure to be attractive/impress others. The worst part (not bad) is that it takes more effort to understand sexuals (almost everyone, of course) and their experiences. Still, on a good note, it’s led to a lot of interesting conversations.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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