Just Separated



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Marketing
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70+

Just Separated

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a very attractive, tall brunette. She was married when I met her and I was very surprised when I found out her husband and she had separated.
She was somewhat bookish and innocent but after her separation she got a boob job and started going out. I noticed that she also started smoking which she never did while she was married.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a company event and I walked her back to her car at the end of the evening (using the guise of wanting to be a gentleman)
When we got back to my car, I asked her if she would like to come back to my place and fool around. I have to admit, I totally misread her situation. I thought for sure that she would have said yes.
Instead, she looked at me in shock. I quickly reverted to a more gentlemanly disposition and apologized. She told me that she had never really thought about hooking up with me. I told her that I always thought she was very attractive and thought she might like a diversion.
Her demeanor changed and we started to kiss. After a good 10 minutes of escalating passion, she got out her phone and called her sitter and asked if she could stay late. She then followed me back to my place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got back to my place we started to make out and strip each other of our clothes.

Her pussy was so wet, that when we got on the bed, she immediately straddled me and slid down on my dick. It took her about two minutes to explode into a shaking orgasm, then she started crying.

I held her for a good 10 minutes and let her calm down. She told me she had never had an orgasm before and her ex-husband was absolutely terrible in bed

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that night, we started to see each other quite frequently. Even years later, we still hook up from time to time, even though we both gotten married since our first meeting

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I unleashed her sensuous side and she was very grateful

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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