My Black Man Experience

by Natalie

Gender: Female
Age: 31
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Teacher
Relationship status: Engaged
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My Black Man Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Unexpected

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I went to visit a friend in San Diego about a year and a half ago who was in a relationship with a black black guy ,who I will call Marcus.
I arrived on a Thursday and myself and friend planned to have one night out together in San Diego before heading to San Francisco for a girlie weekend. We were just about to go out for the evening when I got my first glimpse of Marcus  He was in a suit and tie rand looked very stylish. He was really well built and dwarfed me as i’m just  5ft 2 and he was at least 6ft 4.  I didn’t think he was particularly handsome and I wasn’t immediately attracted to him, in fact previous to meeting Marcus I’d never been attracted to any black guys I’d met socially.
My friend asked if he wanted to join us  for a drink but he declined, so my friend and I left and went out partying. We got back well after midnight and both the worse for drink. I was on the pull out bed in the lounge and as it was very small I managed to fall out of it on more than one occasion and making a bit of a racket.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The next morning my friend made breakfast before heading off to work, where I planned to meet her at  that afternoon so we could  head off  to the airport for an evening flight to San Francisco. I thought Marcus had also left for work so was surprised when his bedroom door opened and it startled me somewhat. He walked right by me as if I wasn’t there and straight to the bathroom. I quickly got dressed and made myself tea in the kitchen. When he ventured back out he was dressed in running gear and  I offered to make him cuppa. When he came into the kitchen I sheepishly apologised for the noise I ‘d made. Without saying a word he grabbed my arm and turned me around slightly before spanking my bottom hard on each cheek and telling me off for breaking his sleep. I wasn’t sure how to respond, in one way I was offended but in another turned on by his brazenness. I flapped around like a schoolgirl nervous about what might happen next. To my surprise he just turned and said he was going to go for a run. As he put on his trainers I asked if I could join him.  I needed some fresh air  and although he was surprised by the request  he agreed . As we ran we chatted and actually had quite a good laugh and flirted with each other. Once we got back to the apartment and kicked off our trainers  there was a rather awkward moment when we both looked at each other and I thought he might try and kiss me. but instead he  just headed to his bedroom and then began listening to music on his CD player. Being all sweaty I shouted if  he minded me using the shower but I got no reply so I went to his room where his door a quarter of the way open. I  couldn’t see him but asked again, this time he heard me and came to door, now just in his (very tight fitting) boxer shorts and wow did he look great…Large shoulders, toned arms and chest, a six pack and lovely glistening ebony skin. My heart began beating ten to the dozen and I was more than a little flushed ,which he obviously picked up on.

He suggested I skip the shower and join him in the bedroom. It was only when he asked that, that I got a massive pang of guilt, as althoughI knew wanted to have him I also felt guilty as I loved my boyfriend and didn’t want to cheat on him, even though we hadn’t been physical together for well over a year. I  apologised and said I couldn’t do it and to his credit he didn’t get peed off but said he understood which made me feel relieved and more relaxed. So it must have been a shock to him when I returned to his room 10 minutes later having mulled it over a little more. He was lying on his bed still in his boxers singing along to a song. He sat up as I  stood in front of him and explained my physical frustration with my boyfriend and about how he didn’t like the size of my tits and other things about me.  Marcus listened and nodded and then told me to take off my top and let him have a look at my tits, which I did.

He said my boyfriend was crazy and that my tits were  lovely but also that he wasn’t really much of a breast man and was more turned on by a woman’s backside, at which point instructing me to turn around and to remove my tracksuit bottoms.. I was incredibly turned on and did as requested. He told me how sexy my arse was and told me to take off my panties slowly, which made me feel very slutty but excited at the same time so I did as requested. He then told me to spread my legs bend over and grab my ankles which of course I did, at which point he began to get very animated about my pussy being hairy and how much it turned him on.  I normally had a shaved pussy, (again on account of my fella) but I’d neglected shaving it for while as my boyfriend hadn’t seemed interested in sex and also being half armenian my pussy hair was should we say quite wild and bushy.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As you can imagine, by this time I was tingling all over and feeling wet. Marcus walked up behind my and with me still holding my ankles slid his cock into me. Oh my god was it big! I hadn’t even seen it yet but could feel every inch of it as he slid it further and further in to me.  My first  boyfriend was big  – about 9 inches in length but Marcus’s felt much longer and way way thicker. I moaned out in pleasure and thought I was going to faint. Marcus was amazing, working up a pace slowly until he was banging away furiously and just as I was about to orgasm he pulled his gorgeous cock out and turned me around.  We kissed for the first time before he picked me up like i was a rag doll and plonked me on his cock again. I proceeded to bounce up and down with this huge black thing inside me as he kissed, bit and sucked my tits. It was glorious.
I came whilst riding him this way and I couldn’t quite believe his stamina and how he hadn’t managed to come. While I was shuddering from my second climax he threw me down onto his bed and I got a look at his lovely black cock for the first time. It was easily the longest and thickest cock I’d seen, even from watching dirty movies with my boyfriend. I grabbed it eagerly with my hand and started to wank it and suck it. He grabbed my hair and started pulling my mouth off and on it, each time sinking it further in.  I loved every minute of sucking his cock and the fact that it tasted really clean, which made me suck and lick his dick and balls all the more.  I could feel him getting ready to come as he forced me deeper onto his shaft until almost three quarter of it was in my mouth and then he shot his lovely cum down my throat. I fingered myself as I eagerly swallowed his load and it wasn’t long before I was climaxing myself, still sucking and licking his softening cock.

We sank onto the bed and kissed passionately and it wasn’t long before he was ready to go again and we fucked for another hour easily, in all different kinds of positions, me on top, him on top, doggy style and my favourite, with me lying face down and him lying on top of me with a pillow under my pelvis…absolute heaven. It was only my phone going off that stopped us carrying on. I’d almost forgotten that I was meeting his girlfriend/my friend at 2 and would have to tell her I might be late meeting her. However, she told me she was running behind and that we should meet at 4 instead. Which of course meant more time for sex with Marcus. When I got back in the bedroom and told him the news he didn’t seem bothered that we’d both just cheated on our partners /friends and he suggested that we have a bath to which i agreed.  We scrubbed each other clean and headed back to the bedroom. He told me that because i’d been such a good girl that he was going to reward me with one of his special massages. What’s a girl going to do?  He laid towels down on the bed and went to his drawer and pulled out one of those travel sleeping masks. and placed it over my eyes and told me it would heighten the pleasure..  At this point I was putty in his hands. He began massaging my back with massage oil that smelled a little like coconut, was warm and felt amazing. Marcus massaged my back wonderfully, his hands making my skin tingle, as he nuzzled the back of my neck. He worked down my back past my bottom and onto my thighs to the back of my knees and onto my calfs. Working his fingers in to my muscles he spent what seemed and age on my feet before working his way slowly back up my legs and up to my bottom again. I could now feel his erection against my legs as he massaged my bum cheeks, kneading and spreading them. He stopped for a moment and I could hear him fumbling about before feeling the warm oozing of oil inbetween my arse cheeks and pussy. Marcus began to finger me in my pussy with his oily fingers, first one, then two, then three. All this whist simultaneously rubbing my clit with his thumb. I was writhing and moaning with pleasure, and he soon had me orgasming . He then turned his attention to my arse, again starting with one finger, then two and then a third. I had an inkling where this was heading, as my first boyfriend had an obsession with trying to stick his dick in my arse,  Occasionally I let him  but not that I enjoyed it. It was always uncomfortable and painful and I never really came close to orgasming..  As I mentioned he was quite big so i put it down to his size but I never allowed it up with proceeding boyfriends and had no intention of engaging with it again. well not until Marcus got his hands on me! His fingers were sliding into my hole quite easily and it actually felt really nice. I pushed my bum up to feels his fingers deeper and sensing my enjoyment Marcus pulled me forcefully  to the end of the bed so that my knees were almost falling off the end .

I waited for what seemed an age before I felt the tip of his cock begin to ease its way into my arse. I wasn’t even sure it would fit in there but Marcus really knew what he was doing. He whispered for me to relax and breathe whilst all the while sinking his lovely cock deeper inside me.  It was an amazing feeling being stretched so wide, almost painful, as he got deeper and deeper until it felt like he couldn’t go in any further. It must have been inside me  at least 9 inches but Marcus kept telling me to breathe and relax and kept applying slight pressure, until all of a sudden his cock seemed to find another opening and slid in even further, at least another 2 or3 inches and oh my god! what a difference that made….Incredible. it went from turned on but slightly uncomfortable to utterly orgasmic in one little push. I was screaming my pleasure like never before as Marcus rocked his cock gently backwards and forwards.  I could now feel his balls right up against my pussy and realised he had got that giant thing of his all the way inside my arse. He was now taking deeper strokes and it wasn’t too long before he was banging me at a good pace. From going centimetre by centimetre, his cock was now sliding in and out of me inch by inch, until he was actually drawing himself all the way out and then all the way back in.  He tugged on my hair as he reached towards his climax and then emptied himself in what felt  like the biggest load of cum I’d ever received, deep into my bowels. I was writhing with pleasure and he was grunting like some kind of crazed bull. To my amazement he was still hard and continued banging away for probably another five minutes before removing his cock and guiding me off the bed before sitting himself down on a wooden stool next to the bed and positioning me on top of him with bearing down on him as he guided his cock once more into my arse.   From this position Marcus started rubbing my clit as I rode up and down. Now able to control my thrusts at my own pace Marcus was biting my neck and now had the other hand kneading my breast and rubbing my nipples. I could feel the orgasm building inside me with more power than I ‘d ever felt before. When I finally came I was actually squirting my  juice everywhere ,my left leg  was twitching uncontrollably and the squirting continued for what seemed like a an age. When I finally hoisted myself off him my legs actually gave way and I almost hit the deck. Thankfully Marcus grabbed me in the nick of time. He picked me up and again threw me onto the bed and my blindfold slightly came off.  I could see that this stallion of a man was still fully erect. He grabbed me and pulled me close to him and then pinned both my legs back up against my ears as he slipped his cock into my arse again and holy crap did that feel deep. He kept telling me how much he loved my hairy pussy and told me to spread my lips wide with my fingers. This seemed to drive him crazy as it didn’t take long for him to cum with me doing this and pulled his cock out to squirt his load on my pussy.
Both now  completely spent we kissed and cuddled for a long time before I got up, had a quick clean up, got dressed and went to meet my friend feeling more than a little guilty but floating on air.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes lots! On both sides

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? i’m on the pill. No condoms used.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? To feel desired by a sexy man and for sexual gratification

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt very guilty but exhilarated also. Would love to meet him again but it’s complicated.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, which is why I wanted to tell my story and share it without causing upset to people close to me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, consensual on both sides

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I regret cheating on my
boyfriend and my good friend but the sex was incredible.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the sex. The feeling of a big cock in every hole with someone who knew how to use it was amazing. The hook up made me feel sexy again and I am more demanding for sexual gratification from my boyfriend as a result. The worst thing is the guilt I have from cheating and the fact that I now crave sex with a big cock a lot more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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