Right Place, Wrong Time



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 51
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Rocket scientist
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Right Place, Wrong Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? 

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Partner was my aunt. She was 47, sexy and on the larger side of womanhood. I had often fantasized about having sex with her, but never expected it to happen in any away.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened at my aunt’s house after a family gathering. There was no planning and was completely spontaneous. It was largely instigated by my aunt and it all began when I went to the bathroom.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Just as I finished my pee, I turned to wash my hands and she came in (I obviously forgot to lock the door )and locked the door, apologizing that she could not wait and just had to go.
As she declared her urgency, she hitched her skirt, pulled her knickers down, sat down and just stared letting it flow. At first I just stood with my mouth open, not sure what to do. Do I do the right thing, turn and leave whilst risking exposing her as I opened the door (there were guests milling around all over the apartment)?
Before I could decide, she asked if I liked watching women pee. I said ‘sure’. In truth, I had not seen it that often and certainly not my aunt, but this was new so I just went with it.
As I said that, she opened her legs, reached out and took my hand, pulling me a bit closer and downwards so that I was kneeling in front of her so I could get a better view. She was quite drunk and just had this naughty smile on her face as she exposed herself to me. She then closed her eyes and leaned back to let me enjoy the view.
I looked between her thighs to get a view of the hairy, chubby pussy as the piss streamed from between her ample lips. Finally, I had seen the thing of my fantasies and my face was just a few inches from the hot steamy cloud coming up from between her legs.
Just as she was finishing, I decided to take a chance and push my luck a little. It was now or never, so as the flow started to slow, I put my hand under and was amazed at how hot her piss was. I cupped my hand as she finished and began to massage her pissy fat pussy. She flinched a bit as she was not expecting it, but did not try to pull away.
She then opened her eyes and looked at me but I did not stop and continued to explore her pussy, searching for all the important targets I wanted to touch after fantasizing over them for years, but it was not long before other guests were knocking on the bathroom door.
So there it ended. I stood, rearranged my now rock hard cock, and turned to wash my hands as she wiped herself. I made sure I licked my fingers clean before washing them though.
Well, it’s the only taste I might ever get 🙁
We both managed to sneak out of the bathroom without too much notice.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We glanced at each other briefly throughout the rest of the evening, but we have never spoken about it since. She has since re-married and I have now married myself, but there is still that little something between us which will always remain ‘ours’. I will always wish we had got the chance to develop this encounter further, but the chance never really came about so it will have to remain a partly unfulfilled fantasy. I often think of it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had been fantasising about her for years and never expected anything to come of it. Will cherish it for ever.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Too brief and did not develop.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I see nothing wrong with it so long as no one gets hurt and all parties are consenting adults. I have not dabbled in very much casual sex, and do not seek it out. If it comes my way, great.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great forum to share sexual experience.

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