What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 16
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Wisconsin, USA
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Life gaurd
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Now just 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met at lifeguard training. We had to work together for about 4 days before we got our licenses. Then we got stationed at the same pool for an evening open swim for our actual jobs. His name is Tay, he is black, about 5’7. I thought he was annoying when I first met him because he didn’t really understand what was going on but as I got to know him after we started working together I found out that he was actually really funny.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The week of valentines day he asked me if I had plans and I said no then he asked for my snap and if I would help him find a girl. Prior to this, we had been swimming together in the pool because no one had shown up to swim, we started to get closer.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One day he said it was hot and asked me if I wanted to sit with him in the office to catch some air. After we cooled down he started saying how his meat wants to get abused, then said he wanted a tour of women’s locker room. So I scouted to see if anyone was in there and I was about to pull him in when a lady walked in. We went back into to the office and sat in two really low chairs. I was nervous because this was my first sexual experience but I moved my chair closer to his anyway. He had his hoodie over his crotch so I put my hand under and he guided me to his dick. I was really turned on and I could tell he was enjoying himself but it was pretty dry. He said to spit in my hand but my mouth was dry from being nervous so I stopped and walked behind this changing thing in our office and he followed. Then I got really nervous and was like, “we will finish this on another shift” but then I thought, “I can’t leave him hanging”. I stood there looking at the large bulge in his shorts until he took is dick back out and this time I could see it. I dropped to my knees in awe from how big he was even though he told me he was small. I rubbed his hard cock a few more times and then I put my mouth on it. I started going faster and deeper. I got to the point where I was deep throating and I moved my head back to breathe but then he pushed my head back down which really turned me on. When he did that, I looked up at him with his cock in my mouth and he smiled while looking in my eyes. Then I thought I heard someone enter the pool area so we stopped.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked about fucking in the future I told him he has to use condoms in order for us to have intercourse. We closed the pool and he hugged me on the way out. We both want to go all the way. I was in shock, I have never really even kissed someone before this.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend was excited for me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His dick hitting the back of my throat and him pushing my head down.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Things might become awkward.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. It showed me that sex doesn’t have to be this taboo thing and it made me consider that being a minor, getting my hands on protection and birth control will come with a challenge.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I feel like I have a secret. Who’s idea was it to let 2 teens be alone in a pool room with many hiding spots by themselves?
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If you both clearly want it then do what your bodies want.
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