What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian


How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is in her mid 50s, brown eyes, blonde hair and a looks great for her age. She is a bit shorter but has a nice rack. I’ve known her for quite a few years, she has been a vendor at my work. We have flirted on and off again over the years. She has asked me out for drinks but not in a year or more.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went out with a few friends the other night. We all went to a local brewery and had a few drinks. We were all leaving. As I was walking out, the vendor from work was just walking in. I stopped and made small talk with her and she convinced me to come back in for a drink or two with her. I had a few more drinks with her and was feeling great. She told me she had come from another bar and was feeling pretty drunk. We flirted a bit and her hand ended up on my leg. We flirted a bit more and then she asked if I could give her a ride to her friends since she couldn’t drive. She gave me the address and i put it into my GPS. As soon as we were on the road she began to rub my leg.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She unbuckled her seat belt and leaned over. She unzipped my pants and pulled out my cock. She began to blow me — very sloppy, too. She took me all the way into her mouth. It was a very short drive to her friends house. We sat out in front as she finished me off in her mouth. She swallowed and stumbled out of my car up to her friends.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I seen her today and everything was like normal.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

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