What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Consulting
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Amazing Sex With Ex-Wife
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We were married for 12 years. For the last 5 years, she had put on weight and we had sex about 10 times. I cheated on her and left her. She is a 5’4′ blonde with perfect upward pointing nipples. A few months later she had taken off all the weight and started fucking a 28 year old Spanish guy (she’s also 48). I accidentally walked in on them once and it was pretty hot. My relationship was winding down and from that minute, I wanted her back.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met for lunch to talk about the kids’ school and pretty soon the discussion turned to sex. She was wearing stretchy yoga pants and a pretty tight shirt. She was telling me about fucking the young guy and his curved cock! Her nips were starting to stick out – omg. When we walked out to the parking lot, she asked what I was doing now, and I said “coming over for a drink”.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we walked into her house, she poured us two huge tequila shots. She has beautiful puffy labia and I could not take my eyes off of them in her stretch pants. After a few minutes of sex talk where she was very descriptive of the 28 year old Spanish guy, she hit me with the fact that once she picked up my phone call while they were fucking. We went up to her bedroom and ripped our clothes off. She had silk sheets (that’s new!). I started flicking her nipples with my tongue and she was moaning. I started to touch her already wet and swollen clit, but she stopped me and said she wanted to show me something. She grabbed my dick and began to slowly lick up and down the bottom along the vein. Her old bj’s were just slobbery and straight up and down. I was amazed and she could tell. It wasn’t long before I exploded all over her tongue and the sheets – like I hadn’t cum in so long. I pushed her little body back and slid my tongue and teeth softly against her dripping pussy and clit. I remember that when I pushed two fingers into her she screamed and came immediately. I was already rock hard again and she pushed me on to my back. She used to ONLY like missionary. I watched her glide me into her and she kept saying “oh god, it’s so thick. I never forget how thick you are.” I was amazed watching her ride me in and out and had a great view. She was fingering her clit and seriously exploded 3 times in just a few minutes. Her pussy pulsates when she orgasms and the last time, I just lost it and came so hard in like 10 pulses. She was moaning “I feel it!” She rolled off me and the cum just poured out of her on to the silk sheets like in a porno! We both fell asleep for a few minutes and when we woke up, I couldn’t believe the cum mess on the silk. We went at it again but had to stop right after we came because she had to pick the kids up…
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have been hooking up in the mornings after the kids are dropped at school. At least 10 times in the last month. Plus she sexts me at night. I can’t believe I ever wanted to stop fucking this woman! She has sent me many pics of her lying naked after masturbating. Whoa
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I can’t tell any of our mutual friends, but I have told a couple of my new buds. One saw her at a restaurant once and kept talking about her legs…
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? For our last 5 years together, I didn’t want to touch her. Then a year later, I can’t stop thinking about how perfect her pussy is. The young guy seems to have really opened her up because she talks soooo hot now, plus her oral is finally GREAT. Plus now she loves cum. All of my other girls were tall, but she is so tiny. I LOVE it
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? At first, it was thinking about all the guys she fucked after we split. But then, I started to get really into it!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? She had two 3 ways while we apart. It turns me on beyond description.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The time I walked in on her and the young Spanish guy, they were both cumming!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It made me want her back so much. I learned a lot about what women want, and it did the same for her.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Super hotness.
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