Back In Town After Leaving Without Notice



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Unemployed
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Back In Town After Leaving Without Notice

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M is what I’ll call her, she is a redhead about 5’8″ with a petite but curvy figure that I’ve worked with closely for about 3 years but known her seriously for 2, I had shown some interest in her and about a year ago we actually started dating for a couple months and it was getting serious. Then one day, out of the blue when I was off, she packed her things, turned in a notice and left to move back west without even so much as a goodbye. She had only texted twice in that year and I couldn’t bring myself to reply.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I guess the hookup started to happened the other night. I had to go to work to pick up paperwork for a project I was working on. While turning into the parking lot I got a call from a colleague telling me she was back in town and had actually rejoined the place we worked at. By the time he got that out of his mouth I looked up and saw her standing at the doors. She was wearing a t-shirt and jeans, that she knew I loved her in, and It was fairly awkward seeing her again after she had left and hurt me only for her to reappear. After I got the paperwork I went outside and she was by my car, we talked briefly and went to a local bar, at her insistence, to clear the air. After the bar I walked her to her place and she kissed me, she wanted me to come inside but I decided against it. The next day another friend of mine basically smacked some sense into me and told me to go see her, she was at her apartment so I just went and knocked on the door, not exactly sure what I would do.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?  She answered the door after a minute and invited me in, she was in nothing more than a t-shirt and her panties and had some movie on the tv. She hugged me and kissed my cheek to which I kissed her on the lips. When we started making out in the doorway I closed the door, lifted her up and put her against it as she wrapped her legs around me. I carried her to her bedroom while we made out and, once I got her into her room, she stood up and took my shirt off, I took hers off also, revealing her amazing C cups as we kissed. I took the hair tie from her hair and watched her hair fall around her as she came back in for another kiss and undid my belt. Once she had gotten my belt and pants off I laid her in her bed, took off her panties and ate her out for about 10 minutes. After about 5 minutes of this, she was begging for me to be inside her, I kept eating her out for the remainder and she came for the first time. I kissed my way up her body and fingered her as I did so. I picked her up and flipped so she was on top of me and she took my underwear off, she gave me a blowjob for a few minutes until she finally couldn’t stand it any longer. She climbed up and sat on my dick and started moving. It wasn’t our first time so it was easy to find a rythim and after about 5 minutes of her riding me I flipped us over and we did missionary. Then she wanted to do doggy so we did that until I came on her back.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we finished we cuddled in her bed until she decided to take a shower. I joined her and we simply made out and did hand stuff in the shower. Once the shower was done she wore my tshirt and i only wore my boxers as we went into her kitchen to find some food, during which time she sat on the counter While we talked. Well we didn’t find much by way of food because as soon as she sat on the counter and I saw her amazing figure with the sun setting outside giving a warm orange glow I kissed her again. We made out while I fingered her then I got on my knees and ate her out on the counter. After I ate her for a couple minutes I was again rock hard and I laid down on the floor and she rode me. I pushed up my shirt revealing her figure again and this time she rode me until I came inside her. She kissed me deeply again and we finally got around to finding the food. We watched a movie on Netflix in her living room after we got dressed. Then I left after kissing her again. I’m going to see her tomorrow as it seems we will startup what we had prior to her leaving.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Plan B / Emergency contraception

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We have been texting nonstop since it happened, she said how good it was to be with me again after a year away. The friend who convinced me to go to her place gave me the general “I told ya so” line

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being with her again..her body is absolutely amazing and we have amazing chemistry

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to leave

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Shea saying she’s stating for good this time, I hope so. It hurt like hell last time she left. Don’t want to repeat that

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