by Rony

Gender: Female
Age: 37
Race/ethnicity: Sikh
Current location: UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Admin
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 2008

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sex with an ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? i had just broken up with my husband of 4 years and moved into a flat, so i contacted my ex boyfriend who i was seeing for about 2 years before i got married and he used to come over and spend the night monday to friday and we would have sex every night, this continued for about 6 months

during this time, about 3 months into my relationship with my ex i met a new guy and he would come over in the morning before work and/or after work in the afternoon or evening. we would have sex but he was always careful

so for about 3 months i was having sex around 4 times a day until my new boyfriend found out when i tried to blame the pregnancy on him.

i had to make a choice to stay with my ex or new boyfriend…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? no planning, i would call or he would call to check if i was alone in my flat, no family staying over, etc

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? mostly straight sex but occasionally i would give oral or he would give oral

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? sometimes

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? i did not use anything since i knew him and we were sexually active when we were dating

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? sex

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? we would smoke weed, cigarettes, have a few drinks and of course kissing, fondling and sex

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? he would stay the night and leave in the morning

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? nobody

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no regrets

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? sex

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? he got me pregnant and i tried to blame my new boyfriend

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