What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We were both 26 and had just started going out. E was good fun and quite a bit kinkier than I had expected. She was 5ft 6, brunette, B cup, pert breasts, lovely legs, and rear. Attractive, especially her smile.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day in the kitchen, we started to talk about ex-boyfriends and girlfriends, nothing sexual to begin with, we were just finishing up in the kitchen and we started to kiss. It was about Spring time so it was still quite light outside as I remember and the blinds were not properly closed and if anyone had wanted to I am sure they could have seen in.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She then broke away, took both of her hands and started to unbuckle my belt, unbuttoned my jeans and reached in to take hold of my cock, which as usual was already pretty hard. She started to very slowly stroke it, palm up so that I looked down to see her hands very lightly and slowly under my cock.
She then asked me if I was curious about her ex-boyfriends, which took me by surprise, but I tried not to show it. I smiled and said yeah, love to hear. She had an absolutely horny look in her eyes and a small smile on her face and she was just ever so gently stroking my cock, almost not touching it at all but just enough to keep it hard, which was a skill she used on me a lot! She broke contact with my eyes and dropped her eyes to watch my cock for maybe about 10 seconds. She then gripped it much tighter and looked back up, straight in my eyes with that horny look and little smile and told me that the previous boyfriend had had an 11 inch cock, and as she said it she firmly started to wank my cock, still quite slow, very slow actually but with a much firmer grip.
I waited for her to continue talking but she was waiting for me to respond, our eyes still locked together. I asked if it felt good inside her and she nodded, continuing to describe what it was like and how she couldn’t take all of it inside her, how it stretched her and how she liked to fuck it. I should say that, though I always try and say I’m 6 inches, I am a little less than that.
She probably only spent 30 seconds describing that and moved on to tell me that the guy before that had been 10 inches, and that she knew how lucky she had been and she had barely got that out and I had to cum, one of the most intense orgasms I have ever had and certainly for one that had come on so quickly. I had to put my head on her shoulder as I felt her hand again and again, sliding up and down.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had never really been consciously excited by that kind of thing before but wow! I don’t know how many girls are tuned into it or how many guys are excited by it but it really opened a door for me. Love remembering it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It’s created a real kinky sexual interest for me. I get really turned on thinking about it and now I get turned on by the idea of it with others. It’s a bit of a power and submission thing I suppose. It was such an intense orgasm. It introduced me more to the psychology of sex and sexuality.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really, though despite the horniness of it no guy really wants to know he’s a bit small.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it did. I love this kind of thing now.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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