Ding Ding, Round 2

by Jenna

Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Illinois
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Dentist
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Ding Ding, Round 2

How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sex with an ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met through friends of friends. He’s average height, slim but strong with dark hair and nice eyes. We were friends for awhile before we hooked up. We started seeing each other for a while but it didn’t work out. We started talking again recently and he was keen to meet.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He messaged me several times over the last few weeks asking to meet. I think we both knew what would happen if we did meet. We were both out drinking one night and he came home with me after.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We’d both been drinking a lot and he started touching me on the way home. When we got in we grabbed some beers then started frantically making out and tearing each others clothes off. He touched me some more and started kissing me all over. He laid me down on the floor and starting eating me out. After that we had rough vaginal sex, he slapped me round the face, choked me and pounded me pretty hard. Later I gave him a blow job whilst I fingered myself. He pushed me up against the wall and fucked me fast and hard, then doggy style whilst pulling on my hair. He ate me out again, then I sat on his lap and fucked him. I sucked his cock and we had sex in other positions and he spanked me. Variations of this went on for hours, he’s strong so he could easily move me around. It ended when I felt like I was going to pass out, which annoyed him so he came on my face! He was rough throughout but did whatever I asked. He called me a dirty slut twice during sex it seemed to turn him on even more. We passed out as the sun came up. I’m not sure how long it lasted as we were both pretty wasted but it was awhile, maybe hours.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, we both did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I’m on the pill. We didn’t discuss it.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He had be messaging me for weeks and I saw him at the bar when I was drunk, horny and I thought it would be fun.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A lot of alcohol before and some during.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning he wanted to fuck again but I wasn’t in the mood. I don’t expect or want anything to come from this and I don’t know if I would do it again. I don’t feel any differently about him, I’m not looking for a relationship with this person.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my close friends. They saw me going home with him. They weren’t surprised it had happened but were happy I’d gotten laid. Ha!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was totally consensual for both of us. He was really keen.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not really, we had fun.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was having a fun load of sex. The worst thing was that I’m interested in someone else and I hope they don’t find out.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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