Ex Girlfriend, Suddenly



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NY
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Ex Girlfriend, Suddenly

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup?

Chloe was an ex-girlfriend whom I had dated for close to a year before I broke up with her, for various reasons which I didn’t regret. She was the most physically beautiful woman I had ever had a relationship with so I did miss her hotness. Blonde, brown eyes, big tits, perfect ass, legs, feet- sexy as hell. She was also the horniest girl I had ever been with. She was a few years older than me but I was more mature, responsible and established. Our sexual chemistry was off the charts though.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?

We hadn’t had any contact in 8 months. I had moved on and was seeing other women here and there. She sent me a text one night, kind of obscure like it could have been meant for someone else. I didn’t respond at first thinking it was just that. Remembering how hot she was and how much I loved having sex with her, the thoughts of those times took over and I had to respond, out of curiosity. It turned out she had intended it for me and we started chatting via text. It was a friendly conversation and she said she wanted to stop over the next morning on her way to work. Since I essentially work from home I said sure.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

Chloe showed up, beautiful as she always was. It was a Friday and she was wearing jeans (casual office day). I let her in and closed the door behind her and she started kissing me. We started making out passionately. I pushed her back against the door and was grinding her and running one hand up under her shirt squeezing her tits while the other had her by the back of her neck. She was aggressively grabbing my cock through my pants. I spun her around, brushed her hair away and kissed, licked and bit her neck, then put both of my hands on her tits over her shirt, squeezing her into me forcefully. She always smelled good. Standing behind her I unzipped her jeans and pulled them down along with her thong to about her knees and bent her over. It was the touch-your-toes position but her hands were on the floor which I knew was not very comfortable but I didn’t care. I pulled my cock out and slid it into her wet pussy, grabbed her hips and started fucking her hard. She was a quick cummer and submissive while I was dominating and tend to not cum quickly. I love listening to the feedback and sounds she makes though and I knew that she had already had an orgasm. This was so hot and spontaneous that I was getting close after a few minutes, and that view of her ass was incredible. I didn’t ask her and I told her that I was going to cum in her mouth. I pulled out and she immediately turned around and got on her knees and my cock found its way right in her mouth. She likes to please sexually and is enthusiastic which makes it even better. I grabbed her head and after a few thrusts, I shot a load right down her throat and she didn’t miss a beat. My legs were shaking and my heart was racing and my ears were ringing which was what happened to me when it was that good.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She pulled her clothes back up, checked and adjusted herself in the mirror. Then she gave me a kiss and left for work. I knew I messed her hair up and I liked thinking that she would either have to fix it or somehow explain it. I was panting and thinking that that was awesome even though I didn’t expect it and didn’t really know what was going to happen after. Still weird that she suddenly contacted me.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal, Sterilization, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why just went along with it, It was easy/convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Close friends. They knew my history so this was just another hot story. We encourage each other with these experiences.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was so damn hot. Pulling out and cumming in her mouth was incredibly sexy to me.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was a quickie!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. Casual sex is great and much more common than most of us probably realize.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She had a boyfriend at the time and ended it with him shortly after.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love this! I like to share and to also read what others have done.

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