My Ex Lied About Birth Control



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? South Florida, USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50, 55-60 oral
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Close to 10?

My Ex Lied About Birth Control

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Monica” was my high school sweetheart. Although I hadn’t lost my virginity to her, she had lost hers to me. She was two years younger than me, absolutely gorgeous, and incredibly intelligent. She was around 5’7″, 120lbs, had perky 32C boobs, and a great ass. Her skin was tan because she was partially South American, had bright hazel eyes, and wavy brown hair. For the majority of my young life, Monica and I thought we were going to be together forever, get married, and have a beautiful family.

Unfortunately, me going away to college and her parents finding out she lost her virginity to me made it more difficult for us to be together. By the time I had gone away to college, Monica was telling me to go “experience college” and basically set me free. To summarize, when we broke up, we were still in love and carried torches for each other for a very long time.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I saw Monica maybe once a year when we were both back home during our college years. We always reconnected on all levels very easily and wound up having sex each time we saw each other. She tried to shield herself emotionally since we went to different schools on opposite sides of the country, but she’d always crack at some point and tell me, “you know we’re still getting married someday” and “I still plan on spending the rest of my life with you.”

As college wrapped up, Monica, to me, had changed. She was heavily into drinking (presumably an alcoholic) and far too deep into recreational drug use (having to smoke pot numerous times a day just to be able to eat, sleep, and feel normal). Some of her views on what I considered important issues no longer matched up with mine and one day I just knew that I couldn’t marry her.

When I was a few years out of college (she was two years younger than me and about to go for her Master’s Degree), we made plans to see each other. I had a serious girlfriend at the time and she had a boyfriend back at school, but we both hadn’t seen each other in over a year, so we made plans to go to a bar down on the beach.

I picked her up in my car and she looked as stunning as always. She was wearing a tight, flattering, red dress that accentuated her athletic body and full breasts. She smelled hypnotic and absolutely lit up when she saw me. We were both glowing. We went to the bar, talking, reminiscing, and connecting on nearly all levels.

Once at the bar, she began drinking quite heavily. It reminded me why I had become so skeptical about marrying her. After I was tipsy and she was very drunk, we decided to go for a walk on the beach. We carried our shoes, walked through the sand, and walked far enough that the traffic was still steady but the pedestrians had died down.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Out of pretty much nowhere, Monica walked into the water. Since she was drunk, I went in after her, ready to pick her up if she stumbled over or got into trouble. Luckily for us, she stayed where it was shallow. Without any type of warning, Monica ran at me and jumped on me, straddling me with her legs as I stood in the knee-high water. Between her weight and the waves making me unsteady, I fell to my knees. Monica slid down in her straddled position so that our crotches were now rubbing into each other. We began making out, massaging each others bodies, and grinding into one another.

I undid my pants, pulled out my dick, and we began to have sex fully dressed in the ocean. The beach wasn’t very wide, so any people in the cars passing by definitely saw what we were doing if they happened to look out of their windows.

The waves were too strong for us to get any type of rhythm together, so we walked back up on to the shore. We were still in view of all of the passing cars (about 30 yards away), but we just didn’t care. Monica laid right on the sand without a blanket, hiked up her skirt, and drunkenly told me to make love to her.

I was careful not to get any sand on my wet dick and slid myself into her. She was incredibly wet. It felt absolutely amazing to have the wind blowing over our wet bodies, sending shivers up our skin, and lovingly thrust into her. It truly felt like love-making rather than just emotionless fucking.

Monica’s signature tell when orgasming was always the curling of her toes. When I saw her toes curl- coupled with her passionate moans- I knew she was cumming hard. I tried to occupy my mind with things that would distract me from cumming myself, but the angle of our bodies on the sand was just too much for me. As her orgasm calmed down, I grunted to her that I was going to cum, and through heavy gasps and hard breathing, she ordered me to cum inside of her.

She had never been on any type of birth control before, so I asked her, “Are you sure? Are you on birth control?” to which she replied, “yes! cum in me!” and a fraction of a second later, I did. Being a big proponent of the pull-out method, this was only one of the very, very few times I came inside of a girl. To do it without a condom and with somebody I really loved felt absolutely indescribable. Her chest was heaving beneath me, my thrusting was getting slower and slower, and finally I just collapsed on top of her.

That’s when she said the words that are burned into my memory, “I can feel your baby growing inside me.” My face went from pure ecstasy to “what the fuck?”

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I asked her, “Aren’t you on birth control?” She told me, “No. But I knew you wouldn’t cum inside me unless you thought I was.” Still drunk, she continued, “I can feel our baby growing inside me. I’m so happy!”

Besides her drinking and smoking problems, this was a whole new level of crazy that I wasn’t ready to deal with. I started picturing my life as a young parent and totally freaked out. I lectured her, she belittled my concerns, and I made her go with me to a drug store so I could buy a Plan B.

The guy at the pharmacy gave me a very disapproving look. I was covered in ocean water, covered in sand, and buying a Plan B at like 2 o’clock in the morning. His face had disappointment all over it. I didn’t much care. My concern was getting her to take the pill.

Back at the car, I forced Monica to take the Plan B. She tried to avoid it, tried to hide it, pretended to swallow it, but ultimately washed it down with a bottle of water I purchased. I drove her home, we said our goodbyes, and I drove home thanking my lucky stars for dodging that bullet.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Plan B / Emergency contraception

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Considering that I had a girlfriend at the time, I didn’t tell anyone.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best part about the hookup was definitely the raw passion and love that was felt with this absolutely gorgeous goddess of a girl. Cumming inside of her was one of the best feelings I could have ever hoped for.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The worst thing about this hookup wasn’t having to get her the Plan B or dealing with her drunken emotional instability. It was the fact that she gave me the clap! She was unaware she had gotten it from her cheating boyfriend back at school. So I had to go through the embarrassment of seeing a doctor, getting pills, and making excuses for a few weeks with my girlfriend as to why I didn’t want to have sex, secretly until I was cured.

That was the first and only STD I ever got. Thank God it was curable. I pray it’s the last!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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