Ex Sample



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NYC
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Ex Sample

How long ago did this hookup happen? A month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J and I had dated for close to two years, and he’s actually my longest relationship. We broke up because we both cheated and had agreed that we’re better friends rather than partners.

He’s Black/Dominican with mocha skin and is thinner than me. I’m Dominican/American with milky skin and curvy. The sex between us was always great, but I think while we were in a relationship we got bored and sort of lost the excitement. I don’t know if we were ever in love, but he was my best friend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We’ve always remained friends, but we haven’t seen each other in a long time. He recently moved into his own place and had invited me over to check it out. I was excited to see him, because I did miss spending time with him, but I did not have any sexual intentions. We went to his room after catching up and I wanted to show him this new show on HBO that I thought he would like. We were laying down on his bed and I was really into the show, but I could tell he wasn’t because he was staring at me the whole time. I looked at him and smiled. He said he really liked my hair (I had it in a ponytail with a deep side part). I said thanks, and then he tried to kiss me.

I wasn’t really in the mood to kiss or fool around because the show was really funny and I was actually paying attention to it. I told him honestly and he said it’s fine. He tried watching the show for a while but got distracted and was on his phone the whole time. I figured he was texting his new girlfriend. I tried to ignore him texting but it was hard for me not to be curious. He finally put his phone down, and then put his hand on my back and tried kissing me again.

I wasn’t into it, still, but I felt sort of bad. Poor kid was horny as ever. He kissed me hard and began to get aggressive. It wasn’t until he turned me over onto my back while making out with me and pressed his hard dick against my pussy that I was really turned on.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The feeling of his dick hard as ever against my pussy was amazing. It was like a light switch in me turned on and I wanted him all over again. We still had our clothes on, but he was wearing basketball shorts and I was wearing thin black leggings so I really felt the thickness of his dick. He dry humped me while tongue kissing me and the whole time I was thinking about him fucking the shit out of me. He held my hands down against my head so I couldn’t touch him while he pressed against me. Then he took my leggings off and made his way down towards my pussy.

I was wet already from the thought of him fucking me. The way he kissed and licked the insides of my thighs made me moan, I knew he was going to tease me. I said, “Please eat me baby,” and he did just that. Out of all the partners I’ve ever had, no one has given me head as well as J can. He put his tongue against my clit and applied pressure while flicking the tip of his tongue fast. I love when he presses down onto my clit. He kept this going while he slid two fingers in my pussy and fingered me. He gave me an incredible orgasm and still kept going. I was twitching like crazy and pressed my thighs against his head but he put his hands on my legs and pushed them away from him, giving him full access to my now extremely sensitive clit. I was just about to ask him to please stop when he got up off the bed and stood in front of me holding his dick. I turned onto my stomach and inched towards the end of the bed and grabbed his dick. I loved giving him head because of the moans he’d make. I especially loved sucking his dick and looking up at him. His head was leaning up towards the ceiling, eyes were closed and his mouth was open as he moaned. Knowing that I was making him feel so good was really turning me on and I felt the wetness between my thighs.

I stopped when he pushed my head back, I knew he was close to cumming but didn’t want to cum yet. I desperately wanted him to fill my pussy up. I turned around and stuck my ass up in the air and said I want you inside me. He put the tip of his dick on my clit and rubbed it, I was moaning. I was just about to orgasm again and then he shoved his dick into me and made me scream. He fucked me really hard and I started throwing my pussy back onto him and matching all his strokes. I couldn’t believe I was having sex with him. He grabbed onto my hair and pulled my head back, making my back arch even more. I started saying, “Yea daddy!” when he did that and then I reached another orgasm. He said he was about to cum, and I didn’t want him to stop so I said, “Please don’t stop J,” but he came inside me and buckled onto my back anyways.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After he came he sort of laughed and said sorry. I was annoyed but I grabbed a towel and cleaned myself up. For some reason, I looked at his phone and saw that his new girlfriend had texted him. That killed any thought of going for a round two and I started getting dressed. He asked why I was getting dressed and I just made up some excuse to go home. He asked if I could please stay but I declined.

We’re still good friends and I see him every once in a while but we haven’t hooked up since.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my sister, and she said that I should try to make things work again but that won’t be happening.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I feel bad about his new girlfriend. I was never one to mess with another girl’s man.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing was knowing how much pleasure I was giving him and receiving the same.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’m so in love with it. I love reading what others find pleasurable!

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