What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30 – 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
The Most Exciting Sex After 7 Years
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10+ years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was during the time when my ex and I were going thru the divorce, after we had been together for 7 years. We mutually agreed to the divorce and hence we still got along very well. In fact, we were still living together and the best part, we were having the best sex because we decided to explore & experiment together with each other’s sexual fantasies.
I was already dating my colleague (J), who had no idea that I was still having sex with my ex. I told J that my ex and I still lived in the same house for financial reasons but we had our own separate lives. However, my ex knew that I was also having sex with J because my ex loved to hear how I had sex with other men. J was really into me around that time. J couldn’t keep his hands off me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day, J was to give me a ride home. But I ended up working really late and J had to wait a long time. When J drove me home, J parked in a secluded dark street just around the corner from my house and wanted to fool around for a while with me.
Even though I was somewhat tired, I felt bad that J waited long and I halfheartedly made out with him. He got hornier and he pulled off my panties and fucked me in the car. Half way thru J fucking me, I suddenly realized that I could leverage the opportunity to “test” my ex about his willingness to fuck a sloppy second.
As soon as that thought popped into my mind, I suddenly became really horny too. I responded to J’s thrust with zest & lust. J didn’t last long and he shot his load deep inside me. After J pulled out and he tried to give me some tissues to wipe off his cum dripping out of my pussy.
I didn’t take the tissue and just told J that I’d take a shower at home since my house was just around the corner. I didn’t even bother putting my panties back on. J quickly dropped me off and he drove off.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I walked into the house, with one hand on my pussy trying to stop the dripping cum. My ex was sitting on a sofa, with his feet on an ottoman, watching TV.
I walked over to him, sat down on the ottoman that was just in front of him, leaned back, pulled up my skirt and opened up my legs really wide to expose my wet & sloppy pussy.
Initially, he was looking at me somewhat perplexed. I reached down to my pussy and scooped out some remaining cum off my pussy, and I sensually said to him, “J just fucked me minutes ago outside the house. This is his cum dripping out. Do you want to fuck a sloppy pussy that was just freshly fucked & cummed by another man?”.
My ex stood up, jerked off his shorts to reveal his already rock hard cock. He squatted down and with one swift motion, plunged his hard cock all the way to the deep end of my slimy & slippery pussy.
My ex pounded me so hard & furious that the ottoman kept moving across the carpet until it bumped into the wall. My ex was rarely a dirty talker during sex. However, he kept yelling out that he wanted to fuck my sloppy pussy, pound my slutty cunt, fill it up with more cum, and how a freshly fucked cunt feels so steamy hot, how a sloppy second feels so slippery, etc. I also yelled to him to thrust deeper, fuck my pussy harder, and how I like my cunt fucked again and again by different men, etc.
It didn’t take long before I was having such an intense orgasm that I could feel my pussy was convulsing so hard. Soon after I had my orgasm, my ex also dumped his load deep inside me. The whole pounding from start to end was really short but it was so intense, so violent, so orgasmic, and so exhausting that it felt like we had fucked for 30 minutes non-stop.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? As my ex just laid on top of me and we both were catching our breath. We both agreed that it was the BEST sex ever for all the 7 years that we were together.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Best sex ever
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex. There isn’t any emotional attachment to deal with.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent!!!
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