Goodbye Sex



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Mumbai
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Goodbye Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 and a half years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a college senior. I had been seeing him for about a month and expressed romantic and sexual interest one night when we were both drunk. I found him extremely attractive and smart. He was socially charming and I had had a crush on him for a while before we hooked up. Soon enough, we were seeing each other in a romantic capacity and were head over heels for each other. But things had turned sour over time, and I had called it off a few weeks into it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was the last day of the semester and we were both about to leave for home. We thought we’d spend some friendly time together working on our respective assignments and catching up. I was in his room and before I knew it, we had started kissing and feeling each other up. His flatmate was leaving soon, and we decided that we’d have sex after he was gone.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were both in the kitchen making coffee when we broke into gentle hugs and kisses. It turned hot quickly and he pushed me against the wall to feel my breasts. He bit into my neck and I was rubbing his penis with my palms. We went to the room, talked and finished our coffee before I climbed on top of him. I was rubbing my clit on his hard penis while kissing his neck and chest. He quickly flipped me over, put on a condom and started thrusting into me.
We were keen on leaving the bed and finding a different position to fuck in, so we went to his flatmate’s room and decided to use the study table. I lay down on the table while he stood on the edge of it. I remember closing my eyes and feeling almost high. He then quickened his pace and thrusted into me with force and I almost screamed because it penetrated so deep. I asked him to let me go down on him and I knelt on the floor and devoured his penis in my mouth. I felt his balls with my fingers and he moaned. Then, we got on his flatmate’s bed and I sat on top of him. We could see ourselves in the mirror next to the bed and I began riding him hard. He put his palms on my butt to feel it and direct my pace. I rode him good for another half an hour till he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I mentioned it to friends and I bring up the memory of it during discussions on sex with close friends or my partner.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was sensually pleasing throughout and my entire body felt stimulated.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not much other than that I like fucking on the table a lot.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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