High School Sweethearts…10 Years Later



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual

High School Sweethearts…10 Years Later

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He used to be my high school sweetheart. He is fit and attractive, mahogany eyes and a bright smile. My favourite thing about him is his scent, it’s just wildly masculine.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’ve been living abroad, I went back home for a visit and he decided to meet up. He picked me up and we went to his place. I think inside we both knew it was going to happen. Whenever we meet up the sexual tension is so strong. I sat on his bed, he sat next to me and we started chatting and then I nudged him with my hand, as if to signal to him that he needs to make a move and he leans over and kissed me

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We passionately kissed for quite a while as we got each other undressed. We had vaginal sex three times, pausing for about 15 minutes in between and chatting about life. The first time I was on top, the second time he was sitting up I the bed and I was straddling him and the third time it was missionary. Between the second and third time he went down on me and it was amazing, I came so hard. The sex was exciting and fulfilling…At the end we stayed lying in bed for about 30 minutes after and then got dressed and he drove me back home. On the way we listened to music and chatted.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we proceeded to flirt over text messages and we kept in touch. Happy to see no past feelings surfaced and there were no strings attached. Next time we cross paths again I’m definitely going to go for it again

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He is an amazing kisser, I really enjoyed making out.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

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