Mistake with the Ex



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? PA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Contractor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15-20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Mistake with the Ex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My Ex, L. Shes a very pretty brunette with a big ass and pretty nice tits. We started dating in high school and dated until we were 24. Things ended badly but we hooked up occasionally after we broke up. We hadn’t hooked up for over a year before this.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I forgot my ebay password one day and had a text sent to my phone with a pin to unlock my account. I was unaware that the phone number i have on file is actually my Ex’s #. So i got a text from her asking if I needed the pin. I told her yes and thanked her and that was that for a while. FYI her and my current wife do not get along. She texted me a few days later asking me how I can be with someone like my current gf. I laughed it off and we started texting about old times and things got hot really fast. We started exchanging naked pictures, she sent me videos or her riding the dildo i bought her some years ago. She was always prude when it came to sex. Never liked giving head. Never liked getting her pussy eaten. Never did anal, just standard sex… One of the reasons we broke up. I guess she really expanded her sexuality during the time we were broken up. She told me about some of her flings and I was getting rock hard. I sent her a pic of my dick and she texted back, ” come in the back door, I’m up in my room”. I nearly fell off the couch when I read this. Thank god my current girlfriend was not home. I hopped in my car and got over to her house within 5 minutes.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I got to her house I walked in calmly, not wanting to let her mother or sister know I was there. I walked into her room and she was laying in her bed all covered up. I ripped the covers right off her and saw she was laying spread eagle with her pussy dripping wet and nipples rock hard. She told me that she wanted me to make her cum with my mouth so I went right down on her. Its such a turn on to see the girl, who never liked doing any of this stuff, going crazy while I’m sucking her clit. She whispers to stick a finger in her ass too and as soon as I get a finger in I feel her start to cum. She had a pillow over her face trying to be quiet but we were still pretty loud. At this point I’m realizing that I do not want to fuck her. My current girlfriend keeps popping in my head and I don’t know who L has been with since we broke up. I tell her I’m not fucking her and she says that’s fine. She wants to show me her blowjob skills. I was blown away and asked her when she started sucking dick. She just giggled and pushed me off her. I stood up and she reached in my pants and grabbed my cock and pulled it out. She licked it and then started licking my balls. I love having my balls licked so told her to keep doing that. She smiled and started jerking me while sucking my balls. She then immediately began to deepthroat me. No warm up or anything. and it was amazing. I could not believe this my ex had never given me a blowjob, now shes gagging on my dick and driving me crazy. I tell her I’m gonna cum and she just looks right into my eyes and goes all the way down my shaft. I explode down her throat, which she really enjoyed. She swallowed every drop of cum then started kissing my dick. At that point I pull my pants up and start to leave when she says, ” this will never happen again”. We both smile and I left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We texted back and forth for a couple weeks but that was it. I realized that she is not the right person for me and she realizes that too.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? I do not like cheating

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? An awesome blowjob

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Really cool website

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