by Tinkerbell216

Gender: Female
Age: 39
Race/ethnicity: Black
Current location: Cleveland, OH
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Executive Director
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? About 2 hrs ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sex w an Ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We have been casually seeing each other for over 4 years. He’s dated other people and so have I. We met online. I have had and still have deep feelings for him. I have in part a tattoo on my leg for him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hooked up in his current girlfriend’s car in the backseat. Yeah, we planned it. It was instigated by him. His girlfriend is pregnant and he doesn’t believe that they should be having sex while she’s pregnant. But we’ve been seeing each other the whole time. We had sex in my cousin’s driveway because my kids are home and my ex boyfriend drives by my house all the time.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was very basic, but it’s one of the things that attracts me to him. It was vaginal with kissing and hugs. I felt amazing like a junkie getting my fix. We fit so well together anatomically; almost perfect. And I love the way he smells. He always behaves very lovingly during sex and afterwards. He is a wonderful lover. We talked about how good we felt and how we should have warn a condom but didn’t. It’s during a safe time of the month so we are fine, but it was still dumb. We are often starving when we see each other so we make dumb moves. I came and he came twice. I always love that he can cum and stay hard. We stopped because his phone was ringing.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I always have an orgasm with him; he had two.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We have been having sex for years now and we manage to keep each other disease free. We had a miscarriage a year and a half ago and we do not want children together so pregnancy precautions are discussed.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We enjoy sex with each other and we are the go to person for each other when we aren’t having sex with other people….or sometimes even then? We miss each other.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? One beer for me..he had a Long Island.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He dropped me off to my car and we kissed. I feel fine about it. We’ll do it again in 14-30 days. I feel like I always do about him…a small pinch of pain and then I remember that I will see him again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend; she’s not surprised…he’s my go to guy.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was delicious from start to finish. We should have used a condom.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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