Not Backing Down

by Tony

Gender: male
Age: 27
Race/ethnicity: white
Location: Indianapolis
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Aviation
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Not Backing Down

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2009 I think

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? sex with ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A. and I had been dating off and on for a few years. It was an extremely toxic relationship but I kept coming back because the sex was out of this world. 

Nothing was off limits to this girl, and I loved her for it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’m a martial artist in my free time, and for my birthday, she suggested we go see the movie Never Back Down in theaters. 

(I wasn’t at all interested in seeing it, but we were trying to make things work out so any chance I got to spend time with her was worth it)

So we are watching this god awful movie in a semi crowded theater and she starts fondling me over my pants…

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So in a theater with about 30 other people, she pulls my dick out and starts blowing me. I’m nervous at first but as usual, the act is so good, i don’t protest. 

After a while, I started to climax and let her know (she very rarely let me pop off in her mouth, she usually finished me by hand).

So I come a massive load all over myself and her hands and put myself back into my jeans. 

Then, this ass hole in front of us (some creep in his 40s in the theater by himself) turns around and says, “your parents must be proud of you two.”

A. then wiped both of her come-drenched hands all over the seat next to him. He got up and left hahaha

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No precautions. We dated for a long time and we were in love. Albeit a very angry toxic love.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was my birthday and she wanted to treat me I guess haha

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was happy about it.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one knows except for the people who read this.

….and the guy in front of us haha

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Eh. She was a fun toy to play with, even if she is a bad ex

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The risk was intense. I love taking risks like that.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative


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