Picking Up the Mail



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Johannesburg
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Picking Up the Mail

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 yeays

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is tall, with generous C cups complimented by a good shapely ass and always changing her hair colour. We met on a dating site and she moved in shortly after being new to the city. we broke up after I got bored and I didn’t see myself with her in my future. The breakup was really hard on her and she freaked out for a while.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Since she stayed close by and I still had some of her mail it was easy to invite her over. We both made it very clear the visit was for one reason only with detailed discussions of what we wanted to do to each other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I left the front door unlocked and told her she had to strip in the lounge and meet me while I waited naked in the bedroom. Not much was said as we embraced and I was exploring her body at once feeling her dripping wet shaved pussy. I started by going down on her as her have always enjoyed eating her wet, smooth pussy and I continued after she warned me she was going to cum on my mouth as I pushed on. After she had cum it took the pressure off me to pleasure her I knew I could enjoy her body.

I lay back and rolled on a condom as she mounted me riding cowgirl so I could play with her big tits and stiff pink nipples. My best memory is her dismounting me and pulling off the condom and sliding down on my bare cock before I could refuse. Bare sex is always a massive turn on for me and certainly added to the excitement. I managed to hold back till she was able to cum again then I lost it filling her up with a load of cum as her body shook. My second best memory is her dismounting my cock and my cream dripping out of her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? we caught our breath and she left to shower and dress. I felt a bit empty as se left cause of all the good memories

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, I was feeling lonely, Power / Dominance

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I didn’t want to hurt her

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the hot, sweaty no holds barred fucking

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? knowing she would feel bad and pull out the ex gf crazyness

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I realise that good sex is a mixture of intimacy and power/dominance

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It led to a few more steamy Sunday afternoon hookups

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It has an important place in exploring your sexuality and relationships

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? entertaining and insightful

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