Reconnecting With A Lost Love



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? First Response
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Reconnecting With A Lost Love

How long ago did this hookup happen? Three days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Chelsea is a redhead, about 5 foot 3, slender but curvy girl in all the right places. We had worked together for about 4 years but had grown close and dated briefly last year before one day, out of the blue, she packed her things and left one night without so much as a goodbye. I had found out from her supervisor that she had left a note simply saying she had to leave with no explanation. I had fallen for her, hard. She was everything I wanted in someone, body to die for, personality that just clicked, we had chemistry that even she admitted was “nothing like her previous relationships.” And when she left it hurt like hell.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I guess the hookup began 4 days ago, I had to go to the place we worked to get some papers for a meeting I had the following day and as I was pulling into the parking lot, her supervisor called and said she was back. Where we work is very VERY tight-knit at the level we work at so everyone knows everyone really well. Anyway by the time I finished parking I looked up and saw her walking out. She was in a t-shirt and jeans that both were modest but complimented her figure perfectly. I walked to the door and we had an awkward hello before I went inside the building. I got my paperwork I needed and was talking to one of my other co-workers when he noticed she was standing by my car on one of the security cameras. I had no idea what to do or say so I called my sister for some advice, my sister loves her and wanted me and Chelsea to be together so she basically told me to just go with it and see how things developed. I went outside and we chatted for a little before she asked if I wanted to get a bite to eat so we could clear the air. We went to a local bar popular with co-workers and friends and had dinner and a couple drinks. After, I walked her to her apartment where, before she left, she kissed me and invited me in. I declined because I didn’t want to get confused again about how I felt so we ended it at that. The next day I was bombarded by my sister asking what happened. I told her we kissed and that was it. I admitted to being confused and my sister basically said “grow a pair, go to her place, and finish what was started.” I was hesitant because I didn’t want to fall for her again if she was leaving so soon but I said to hell with it and went. I knocked on her door and she answered wearing a t-shirt and athletic shorts. I went inside and she hugged me, this was when it started.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As she was hugging me I picked her up, kissed her deeply and closed the door by pushing her into it. She was surprised but that quickly went away as she started kissing me and wrapped her legs around me. We made out on the door for a little until I carried her to her room. I set her down and closed the door. When I turned back she kissed me again and I quickly took her shirt off as she did mine. She wasn’t wearing a bra and she has these amazing perky 36B cups that just bounced briefly. I kissed her again and picked her up and laid her on her bed. I took her athletic shorts off to reveal she wasn’t wearing panties either. I immediately began to eat her out like the world was ending outside and kept this up for about 10 minutes. I loved eating her when we were together before and this was no different. After about 5 minutes she started begging me to enter her but I ignored her. Shortly after she had an orgasm and kept begging me. I stopped eating her out and picked her up again and turned around so I was under her when I laid down. She immediately took my pants off and sucked my dick for a little while she fingered herself. Finally, after a couple minutes of sucking, she literally said “to hell with it” and kissed me again as she sat on my dick. It felt amazing to have her riding me again. Our natural rhythm got in sync and while she grinded I humped from below watching her breasts bounce in between her moans. She rode me for what felt like forever before I took control and flipped us over, now I was moving hard inside her as we kissed every so often but most of it I spent watching her reaction which amounted to little more than an open mouth, closed eyes and a half-choked moan every now and then. After a little of that we switched to doggy style and I was jumping her from behind while I pulled her hair, she had an orgasm while I was in doggy and after a little longer I pulled out and came on her back.

After that, we went and took a shower together which consisted of some kissing and hand stuff before we went into her living room to watch the baseball game that was coming on. I simply put back on my underwear and pants and she came out only wearing my t-shirt. We cuddled on the couch through about 4 innings of the game before we decided we wanted to find something to eat. We went into the kitchen but that only got us back into the mood. The sun was setting and the kitchen was all warm colors, reds, oranges, yellows, and they, combined with her red hair, was just a sight to behold. I kissed her again while she sat on the counter and she wrapped her legs around me. After a little kissing, I got on my knees and started eating her out right there on the counter. After a little I was rock hard and I took my pants off, I stopped eating her and she climbed down, we went back to the couch, I took my shirt off her and she rode me again for a little until she had an orgasm and then, about 5 seconds after, I came inside her. We kissed again and she put my shirt back on after taking some time to clean herself up. We cuddled for the last 2 innings and I left shortly thereafter.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I went back to see her. We’ve been nearly inseparable since we got back together and I don’t mind one bit. We’ve slept together since but it’s mainly been like we’ve been together forever, going about our daily lives and just enjoying the time we had. We started dating officially yesterday since she promised she wouldn’t leave like last time and I honestly think this could easily be the last relationship I have as I can see myself with her for years if not forever.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my sister a very cut down version of what happened and that we were dating again, she was ecstatic as was our co-workers who she told as I told my sister.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Holding her again

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to leave that night

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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