Sex With My Ex

by Richard Gosinya

Gender: Male
Age: 27
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Florida
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Writer
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: Non-religious
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Sex With My Ex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sex with an ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was my ex-girlfriend, she is 23-years-old when this story takes place. We dated about 8 months but we were doing long distance and eventually broke up. She’s about 5 foot 6 with shoulder length brown hair. She has perky double D boobs, and a really plump butt. She is not overweight though, I would call her curvy in all the right places. She has her belly button pierced and she’s clean shaven. She’s also very religious. She was raised as a Southern Baptist, and we didn’t have sex until we were dating for 6 months, I was the second person she was ever with, however after we broke up she had sex with many other men.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I just moved for a new job that was in driving distance to where she lived. I didn’t want to communicate with her much at first because I was dating another girl, but I ended up breaking up with my current girlfriend. The day I told her we had broken up she made plans to come see me. I had just moved into a new apartment and had no furniture, only a blow up mattress on the ground in the living room.

After she found out I had broken up with my girlfriend she started sending me pictures of herself in various forms of undress and she would text me about how she wanted to hook up with me, so I was pretty sure about what was going to happen when she came to visit.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She got to my apartment in the morning, and I had just got off work so I was pretty tired. I told her she could change into some sleeping clothes and we could take a nap for a bit. She went to the bathroom and when she came out she was wearing tight blue booty shorts and a black tank top, and had her hair in a ponytail. She laid down with me but it didn’t take long before I was squeezing her butt and caressing her, and I could tell she was getting really turned on.

She was laying on her stomach and I started massaging her body and slapping her butt. She liked to get spanked and her ass was perfect for spanking. Eventually I grabbed her hips and pulled them up so she was on her hands and knees. I pulled down her shorts and she had a small, sexy blue thong on. I pulled her thong to the side and started eating her out from behind.

Eventually I stood up, taking her by her pony tail, I guided her head up to my waist. I pulled out my cock and put it into her mouth. She never really was into oral, but I pumped her mouth for a few minutes to get it all lubed up. I guided her head back down on all fours with her pony tail and pulled her panties all the way down to her knees, where her shorts were at.

I got behind her, and started fucking her, slowly at first then picking up the speed, spanking her ass and making her moan. She was very loud, and it’s a big turn on because she professes to be a pure Christian woman. She comes very easily and probably orgasmed about a minute into me pumping her. I came soon after. I pulled out and came all over her back.

We had sex several more times, during her short stay. I even gave her her first anal experience, and she came really hard.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I had many orgasms. My partner had many orgasms.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t take any precautions besides pulling out. We never discussed STI history. I always get tested after I’m in a relationship and I guess I just hoped that she used protection with the other men she was with.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I missed having sex with her, mainly because I missed getting behind her perfect ass. I think she thought it would be an avenue to begin a relationship again.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We drank a little bit at one point during her stay, but it was’t anything heavy.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup she went home, and I focused on work. I felt good about it, although it left me wanting more. I know I didn’t want a relationship with her, and I continued to shun her until eventually I gave in and visited her. We had a casual sex relationship for a few more months before finally separating for good.

She’s married now, and I’m happy with the relationship I’m in. I don’t have any emotional feelings for her anymore, although I have to admit she was a good lay.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to a co-worker or two about it. They didn’t seem like it was a big deal.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, and yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No I do not regret it at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hookup was I was able to get some closure on a bad breakup with this girl. The worst was I think she had some expectation that we were going to be together afterward, which did not happen. Also she told me she felt used afterward. This hookup did not change my feelings toward casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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