What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
There’s Nothing Like It
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? T defined my “type” being the first guy who made me truly love sex. He was so tall and so slender. I loved how far I could wrap my arms around his tiny waist. I was quite skinny at the time too. We met on a night out, I was full of Dutch courage, took his number, and we dated for a few months. What made him so special was that I took his virginity. The sex was amazing and I loved showing him things and making him feel new sensations. Although it was after we broke up that the real fun began.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We broke up, stayed in touch and I started seeing someone new. After a while, we started to miss each other and started sneaking around. He lived close so it was easy to sneak in and out to see each other. He was fine with the fact I was in a new relationship and we were both happy with casual sex. I’m pretty sure he was just happy to be rid of the drama of being in a relationship with me! We had to hide our casual relationship and my boyfriend at the time was certainly jealous. We would end up at the same parties and I’d always wear outfits that I knew he would love and would drive him crazy that he couldn’t get his hands on me. I loved teasing him!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One night he picked me up from a night out, I was pretty tipsy and was wearing a tank top with little denim shorts. I jumped in his car and seeing his eyes take in my outfit and my body instantly turned me on. I knew he was getting horny and I just had to feel how hard I made him. We drove back to his place and before getting out of the car I pulled my legs up onto the seat, bent over and took his delicious dick into my mouth. I loved the moans he made when I sucked him off. He slid his hand down the back of my shorts and started fingering me, turning me on more, and making me go harder on his dick. He eventually stopped me and we went inside to his room. He went out for a second and I slipped into a skin-tight, super short dress and high heels which was his favorite thing to see me in. He came back, saw me and went crazy. He had an amazing build and could easily lift me up. The positions were amazing. I loved wrapping my legs around his waist when he was on top. The sex had always been good when we were dating but I wasn’t worried anymore about his opinion of me or acting like “a good girl” so he would want to take me home! I was able to embrace my freak side and let out a side of myself I hadn’t seen before. He loved it. He got a little more experimental with me too. He started to pull my hair and lightly choke me which made me feel so good. I trusted him so I was so comfortable and willing to do whatever he wanted. I liked how hesitant he was when he first spanked me. And then how he slapped my ass harder and harder the louder I moaned. Doggy style was his favorite, which made it my favorite too because his enjoyment turned me on. He got me so close to orgasm and the thing that pushed me over the edge was when he told me he was about to cum. That’s when I felt the tingles through my body and up my spine and then we both just collapsed on to the bed.
This was easily one of the best sexual experiences of my life.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have both been in a number of relationships since then but somehow always seem to find our way back to each other for “one last time”. We are both getting to more serious points in our lives, but I can’t stand the thought of going through the rest of my years without the feeling of his amazing dick sliding perfectly into me. We’ll see…
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? It’s a shame that if we got caught we would hurt our partners, who we both care about. I wish casual sex was more socially accepted.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He fits into me like a glove. No sexual experience has ever compared.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to lie and hide it
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? His change in opinion of casual sex has changed mine also. If only more people could see things that way.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think I would be judged by most of my friends and family if they knew about this. I wish that wasn’t the case. My boyfriend fulfills my emotional needs and T fulfills my sexual needs.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? T introduced me to it and I think it’s great! It’s helped me to understand casual sex more and I feel so much better about it!
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