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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Nursing student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

After Closing Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two nights ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My hookup is handsome guy, tall and blonde. He is a bartender at one of our local pubs and is very popular among the girls there. I always felt like there had been chemistry between us. We were always flirting, but somehow nothing other than that had happened.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? That night he was working at the bar. We had eye contact several times, he gave me free drinks and when he passed me he would touch me. When it was almost closing time he came up to me whispering in my ear if i would wait up for him as he was closing the bar that night.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After everyone left he locked the door and closed the curtains. I could feel the sexual tension rising. He kissed me and felt me up with his warm hands. He grabbed my face and gently pushed me down. I gave him a blowjob which he really seemed to enjoy, which only made me more turned on. After few minutes he made me stand up again and turn around, with him facing my back. He pulled down my pants and started fingering me from behind. Then he spanked me. At this point I couldn’t get more horny. He slid himself into me and laid me down over the bar while pounding in me. We ended up doing it on tables, the bar and even the pool table. While we were doing it he rubbed my clit the whole time.  I think at one point I saw fireworks. I made him cum all over my face while kneeling down before him which I thought was really kinky.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I never regretted it for one moment. Luckily, there is no awkwardness between us.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only told my best friend who was excited for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was such…great…sex…

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Seeing each other for the first time after.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No…I still engage in casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like to see a change in the way people look at women who have casual sex. They are often considered sluts or worse. I feel like having casual sex sometimes helps you get to know yourself and what you want and don’t want.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Really great!! I hope it changes some people’s perspectives.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!