Am I Too Fat For You Or Are You Too Small For Me?



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

Am I Too Fat For You Or Are You Too Small For Me?

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Hopefully the start of a relationship

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? D is my age, she is a funny young woman with African heritage. She has dark skin, long hair, is nice and fat. She got big boobs, fat arse and a belly. As many women, she is a bit taller than me. Very beautiful. She laughs a lot and feels good to be with.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I matched with D on Tinder. After some chat, I asked her out. We met up and I fell in love with her pretty quickly. D. is really witty and funny. She made me laugh a couple of times.

Maybe I was getting a bit overconfident from all my successes I had with the ladies in Australia, so at some point during the date, I felt D was not really interested in me. During the other dates, things moved on to the sexual rather fast, but not so with D. Thus, I got frustrated because I felt the date was going nowhere. In hindsight, I understand that I have to be more patient and respectful. D. is just a person with decency. Maybe it also was because I felt so attracted to D that I could not bear it that she did not seem to be interested in me.

Anyway, I flatly asked her whether I am too small for her. I felt that she was just doing polite conversation, and she might have an issue with my height. I wanted to get that straight out so no one would be wasting time.

D laughed about this and. without answering my question, asked me back whether she is too fat for me. I explained to her that I am strongly attracted to bigger women and find her body very appealing. I also told her that I find her funny.
That broke the ice. We both laughed and had a good time. She finally told me that she doesn’t have a problem with me being a small guy. We even held hands for a moment.

There was no kiss on the first date, but as we parted, she said: “You may hug that fat body of mine”. So I got a hug out of it, which felt super nice.

We had a couple of dates. In between our dates, I had sex with a drunk old lady, which made me wonder whether that meant I was cheating on D., but nothing official had happened between us yet so I thought it was ok. Maybe still nothing would happen between us, and not having sex with that older lady would just have meant a missed opportunity.

D let me kiss her after the third and fourth date and after the fifth, I went home with her.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to D’s place and were making out for a long time before D got her boobs out so I could play with them. They are really huge with long very dark nipples. I licked them and buried myself in her bosom.

We got to her bed and took all the clothes off. D. let me rub my penis between her boobs. She surprised me by taking my penis into her mouth. I don’t think that D would do this, she seemed to be more of a decent girl. I would have never asked her to do that, but I enjoyed it when she did.

D had quite a giggle when I started sucking on her toes. She never had anyone do this, She thought it was hilarious. I quite like doing that when a woman has nice cute and soft toes like D. We laughed a lot during our first sexual encounter, which is a wonderful thing. We were both very relaxed, I think.

I got my condom out and we did it in the missionary position. We kissed during intercourse. I had a massive orgasm and D was a great moaner, she must have had more than one. I like it when girls are loud during sex, its very arousing.

After sex, we cuddled and made out until we fell asleep in each other’s arms. Early in the morning, we both woke up and started again. This time D was riding me, pushing her big bonkers into my face. Again she was moaning loudly until we climaxed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are in contact with each other and will meet up soon again. I hope we will start having a relationship. I told her how much I enjoyed our night and she said she loved it, too. So I have high hopes.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a friend and he is quite confident that it will lead to more. I hope he is right!

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally finding someone to have a real emotional connection with. It took longer to get in bed with D, but that made it all the more rewarding.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing, it was wonderful.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think casual sex is nice and exciting, but it does not beat having a loving relationship. I hope I will develop that with D.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I hope I will start a real relationship with D and that means I will not have casual sex anymore. I can imagine that I will miss the thrill of it. Also, of course, it is quite an ego boost when you experience sex with so many women in a short time. But I believe in being true to a partner and will not cheat just for the thrill of it.

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